Don't you think 10 days is close enough to......

jenny11.9 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 01:40 PM

Don't you think 10 days is close enough to......

have placecards!

Wait - better yet - to NOT be faxing the GUEST LIST to GRANDMOTHER that wants to 'RE-DO' some table arrangements???!!!!???

OH - maybe it's close enough to NOT be HIRING MORE LIMOS and CHANGING PICK UP LOCATIONS.

OR - close enough to not find out your FFIL won't be at the rehearsal dinner next Thursday because he's not talking to his parents all of a sudden!!

ADDING A FREAKING GUEST!

OH - how about a wedding license and some Groomsmen gifts &*%$$^#& FI!!!

sorry......so so sorry....had to let it out......

Paiz Posted: Oct 30, 2002 01:43 PM

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LOL Jenny! Hope things calm down for you. Take a deep breath, hun. Don't let them get the best of you!

ddunne23 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 01:44 PM

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YIKES! Take a nice bubble bath with a glass of wine tonight and relax a little. It will all come together.

dubliner Posted: Oct 30, 2002 01:45 PM

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I agree with ddunne23

Not that I know from experience, but I'm sure everything will be fine.

Sonicstef Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:00 PM

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Dont worry Jenny...you had abunch of last minute changes so you are probably in better shape than you realize. Just do what you can and then forget the rest! Good luck!

Jeanene Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:02 PM

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Hang in there Jenny - we are always here when you need to let off steam! Just remember it is your and your FH day! To hell with the rest!!

jenny11.9 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:08 PM

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I think you guys are my best friends.....

Paiz Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:09 PM

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You are too cute!

NovemberSue Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:24 PM

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I know how you feel. We finally got the last person to tell us whether she was or wasn't bringing a guest last night. We can finally call the hall with the final headcount.
I would NOT let anyone know where anyone is sitting. I would simply say that it was already handed in to the catering hall and you don't remember who was sitting where.
Try not to talk to those who are stressing you.

blushingbride2003 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:26 PM

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Hang in there kiddo!! Things will get better and it will all be worth it!!

jpsgirl Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:41 PM

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it really all will be ok. I wish I could have the 10 days before my wedding and my wedding day back again - I would savor every little moment - even the annoying stuff!

michele31 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:43 PM

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Trust me when I tell you- take a deep breath and DO NOT FAX anything to anyone, add anyone to any lists. If your FFIL wants to miss his son's RD then fine. People who truly love you and wish you well will be there.
Sorry that people are doing this to you. It is very unfair.

applesfla Posted: Oct 30, 2002 02:49 PM

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Jenny hang in there. It will all come together.

My MIL had me in tears the week before our wedding because with just 4 days to go she wanted to switch around ALL of the tables so that the families would mingle more! And when I said no my FIL said he didn't want to come anymore. In the end it all worked out, no seating arrangements were changed my MIL and FIL got over it and FIL did attend. When you get down to the wire I think everyone gets a little stressed out (especially the bride who is planning the whole thing). But try not to let it get to you too much like I did. You will have a wonderful day.

OctBride03 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 03:14 PM

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I am sorry to hear things are going crazy for you right now so close to your day! Take a deep breath and relax! Hang in there! It will all come together!

NovemberSue Posted: Oct 30, 2002 03:21 PM

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Don't let anyone upset you or stress you out. Try to stay away from those people as much as you can until the wedding.

curly2003 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 03:24 PM

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relax and take DEEP BREATHS!!!!

abc7077 Posted: Oct 30, 2002 03:33 PM

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Oh my gosh, I feel for you!!!!! I can imaginge the stress. Just take a deep breath and try to not let it get to you. It has to get better.

vamdep Posted: Oct 30, 2002 04:55 PM

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Jenny - I am having similar cr@p going on here - at this point my head would explode if it weren't for my FH - he keeps reminding me that everyone thinks this day is about them and not us - so at this point in order to keep sane and still be able to teach from 8 - 3, I am saying 'whatever' to as much as possible. Of course this sounds easier than it is...

mickeya1a Posted: Oct 30, 2002 05:01 PM

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Jenny-

Relax and take a deep breath. You can't worry about these things...it'll all work out...and I mean it...if you read my posts before, I had tragedy hit one of my bridesmaids and we had alot of last minute decisions to make regarding tables etc and it was fine..we changed somethings the day we got there...just remember that it is YOUR day...so enjoy yourself....f%*@ the rest of 'em that stress you out...

Good Luck!