Doubting your decisions

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Posted by jessamyn78

Well the thing about my place, is that it's owned and maintained by Suffolk County. I am bringing my caterer into the space. It's a 200 year old historic mansion. There are imperfections like paint cracking. The point is, the place is historic and that cannot be changed. I don't care at all and love the place for it's charm, location, set up and theme.

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if you picked a 200 year old historic mansion for that look then don't doubt it. Like you said, its part of its charm. Don't doubt it bc of others...its your vision and your wedding and it will be beautiful.

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Posted by jessamyn78

Well the thing about my place, is that it's owned and maintained by Suffolk County. I am bringing my caterer into the space. It's a 200 year old historic mansion. There are imperfections like paint cracking. The point is, the place is historic and that cannot be changed. I don't care at all and love the place for it's charm, location, set up and theme.

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then u still stand by ur decision...dont doubt it.

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Posted by jessamyn78

Thanks girls. It just made me feel really terrible.

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how come you all of a sudden feel terrible...It will be beautiful, you can put candles all around and on the floor, which is what i would LOVE to do but can't

don't listen to anyone else...its YOUR wedding....everyone's going to have an opinion...that's why there's DUCT TAPE

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

don't listen to anyone else...its YOUR wedding....everyone's going to have an opinion...that's why there's DUCT TAPE

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lol! seriously if your happy thats all that matters..don't listen to what other people say!

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

don't listen to anyone else...its YOUR wedding....everyone's going to have an opinion...that's why there's DUCT TAPE

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nice...real nice...

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jessamyn78

Thanks girls. It just made me feel really terrible.

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how come you all of a sudden feel terrible...It will be beautiful, you can put candles all around and on the floor, which is what i would LOVE to do but can't

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Because it was my mother who said this since she hadn't seen it yet. She came in from NJ today.

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Posted by jessamyn78

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jessamyn78

Thanks girls. It just made me feel really terrible.

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how come you all of a sudden feel terrible...It will be beautiful, you can put candles all around and on the floor, which is what i would LOVE to do but can't

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Because it was my mother who said this since she hadn't seen it yet. She came in from NJ today.

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making them happy won't make you happy just remember that. If she approves of a place doesn't mean it will make things better. I kinda did the same, oh our families dont want the city and blah blah blah, or the food is so different at these places...So im going the big traditional waY lol...I mean i can still add my touches to it but it wouldnt be exactly the same

NO i havent b/c its not worth the aggravation.

And also I love all my vendors/ venue etc

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jessamyn78

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jessamyn78

Thanks girls. It just made me feel really terrible.

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how come you all of a sudden feel terrible...It will be beautiful, you can put candles all around and on the floor, which is what i would LOVE to do but can't

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Because it was my mother who said this since she hadn't seen it yet. She came in from NJ today.

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making them happy won't make you happy just remember that. If she approves of a place doesn't mean it will make things better. I kinda did the same, oh our families dont want the city and blah blah blah, or the food is so different at these places...So im going the big traditional waY lol...I mean i can still add my touches to it but it wouldnt be exactly the same

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actually come to think about it my fmil had a few choice words about the location of our venue..because its out east..she was going on about how annoying it would be for the OOT guests...but to be honest i never cared about her opinion as my parents are the one paying for it! and most of our OOT guests are his family!!!!!!

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Posted by jessamyn78

Thanks girls. You made me feel much better. My mother loves to complain and point out imperfections.

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now im feeling bad



hahaha jk