This girl is in love with two men....her husband 'died' and she remarried and while she was married to her second husband, she finds out that her first husband wasn't even dead in the first place what would you do?? I have no idea..
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He was a soldier in Iraq and for some reason they must have sent her the wrong information...I think ...it's really confusing!! But i'm sorry for her...you can't help who you're in love with...she was saying either way she'll be staying with someone she loves and thinking about another man everyday....
thats horrible that for all that time she thought he was dead!!!
I really don't understnad though...he didn't call her or write her or anything?? It's weird.
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He was a soldier in Iraq and for some reason they must have sent her the wrong information...I think ...it's really confusing!! But i'm sorry for her...you can't help who you're in love with...she was saying either way she'll be staying with someone she loves and thinking about another man everyday....
wait but didnt they have a funeral ... this is just crazy and how long ago was it ... how long did she wait befor she got married ... why didnt the one persumed dead contact her ... so so confused .... very crazy
Yeah it sound slike she got obver his death pretty quickly to already be married and everything.
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this is way crazy.....first off... how in the world can our military confuse soemthgn like. they cant just go around saying people are dead, and o wait we made a mistake.
secondly.... i would not know what to do either...... bc how long was the guy dead for? why would he not contact his wife in any shape or form to say hey im still alive? it doesnt make sense?
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ok i got the story he really didnt die heres the link to the stroy ... i didnt read the whold thig yet this whole crazy 2 husband thing
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Yeah it's weird. For all that time he didn't contact her??
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ok i got the story he really didnt die heres the link to the stroy ... i didnt read the whold thig yet this whole crazy 2 husband thing
Note i copied the link on the 4 page so make sure to scroll back to get the full story ...
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now i dont feel that bad for her she got herself in this situation ...
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thats like what happened in that movie where tom hanks was on an island. Crazy. But that was a movie- not real life!
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wait how did she not know her husband was dead in the first place ... was it like that Tom hanks movie ... cast away i think its called
haha I totally didn't see this when i wrote my post!
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He was a soldier in Iraq and for some reason they must have sent her the wrong information...I think ...it's really confusing!! But i'm sorry for her...you can't help who you're in love with...she was saying either way she'll be staying with someone she loves and thinking about another man everyday....
wait but didnt they have a funeral ... this is just crazy and how long ago was it ... how long did she wait befor she got married ... why didnt the one persumed dead contact her ... so so confused .... very crazy
Yeah it sound slike she got obver his death pretty quickly to already be married and everything.
it seems like it was a rebound kind of thing...
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ok i got the story he really didnt die heres the link to the stroy ... i didnt read the whold thig yet this whole crazy 2 husband thing
Ohhhhh, okay, it all makes sense now....yeah, I don't feel as bad for her anymore...I feel really bad for her husband though....he's literally on the verge of tears...poor thing
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all he was never assumed dead she said he felt like he died cause he ws so diffrent when he came back for Iraq ... i def. dont feel bad for her she just jumed into the next realtionship married the guy knowing sh was still in love with her first husband
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ok i got the story he really didnt die heres the link to the stroy ... i didnt read the whold thig yet this whole crazy 2 husband thing
Ohhhhh, okay, it all makes sense now....yeah, I don't feel as bad for her anymore...I feel really bad for her husband though....he's literally on the verge of tears...poor thing
i am not wathcing it but i feel terrible for the first guy to have his wife abandon him after serving inIraq which is hard enough ... i kinda feel bad for the second guy but i think he knew she still loved her first husband so i dont know why he went thru with the marrigae they should of waited longer than a week to get married after they got engaged
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ok i got the story he really didnt die heres the link to the stroy ... i didnt read the whold thig yet this whole crazy 2 husband thing
Ohhhhh, okay, it all makes sense now....yeah, I don't feel as bad for her anymore...I feel really bad for her husband though....he's literally on the verge of tears...poor thing
i am not wathcing it but i feel terrible for the first guy to have his wife abandon him after serving inIraq which is hard enough ... i kinda feel bad for the second guy but i think he knew she still loved her first husband so i dont know why he went thru with the marrigae they should of waited longer than a week to get married after they got engaged
that's a pretty good point...
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wait how did she not know her husband was dead in the first place ... was it like that Tom hanks movie ... cast away i think its called
haha I totally didn't see this when i wrote my post!
great minds think a like
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I get it!
Okay...so she's not married to two men at the same time! First husband went to Iraq and they got married soon after he returned--he was a different guy though. Shortly after, they got their marriage annulled. Right after that, she started dating someone else and married him. Now, first husband wants her back and she's torn between the two.
I don't think anyone can really tell her what to do. Considering she was a Marine as well, she should've been more prepared to deal with first husband's return home and the reprecussions of being out in Iraq. I feel almost as if she didn't make an effort to understand where he was coming from and why and try to help him.
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HAHAH....yeah after reading all that I would choose hubby #2....he seems like the better choice...
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II don't think anyone can really tell her what to do. Considering she was a Marine as well, she should've been more prepared to deal with first husband's return home and the reprecussions of being out in Iraq. I feel almost as if she didn't make an effort to understand where he was coming from and why and try to help him.
exactly!!!!
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oh wow!!!!!!!!!
thats crazy! it does sound like a soap opera though
I would have no clue what to do !
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This is a soap opera!
I think this woman needs to step back and re-assess her situation. She may have acted too fast in both the annullment and re-marrying.
