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Dress doubts...

saribou13 Posted:

Dress doubts...

Hey all,

After a heated search for the right wedding dress, I thought I finally found a dress that was everything I was looking for - the Maggie Sottero Sabelle gown. I purchased it about 2 months ago, but I haven't seen it since then. I keep going back and forth between excitement and worry over whether i actually made the right decision or not! I thought I had a clear idea of what I wanted in a dress, but now I really honestly feel lost and like I have no idea what if this dress accomplishes what I originally set out to accomplish. I think it also doesn't help that I am someone who likes to think of myself as having a somewhat original style, and then I saw on here that so many other brides selected the same exact gown... I feel like the look I'm going for with my wedding is elegance mixed with summer garden wedding. i envisioned myself in a big poofy dress, but i didn't like a lot of the traditional ballgowns with A LOT of beading or shiny satin fabric. so I started going towards more flowy, organza type ballgowns, but there just wasn't a huge selection of them (at least not in my price range anyway!). a lot of the dresses i tried on, i kept going 'the skirt isn't big enough' i was deciding betwn this dress and a demetrios blue dress, but in the end, i felt like in the demetrios gown, you couldn't see my waist and i felt like it was kind of engulfing me. you can see pics of me in the maggie dress in my album... HELP!!!!
StaceyWill Posted:

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You look absolutely beautiful in your dress. I'm so sorry you're having doubts...
brittndave Posted:

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aw I'm sorry you're having doubts but you have to remember that something made you buy that dress when you tried it on! Go and try it on again and hopefully that will help!
nikki471499 Posted:

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You look so pretty in your dress.

Kiki1103 Posted:

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I am sorry you are feeling this way. Do you know if the dress was ordered yet? I did a re-select last month even tho the dress was already ordered, but I had to pick another Eve of Milady dress. They told me if the dress wasn't ordered that I could have selected a totally different dress.

ETA: You honestly do look beautiful in that dress. Its ok that other girls have it, most people won't have seent it before, trust me!
saribou13 Posted:

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as of a few weeks ago, it hadn't been ordered yet, because i actually realized that my consultant had ordered the wrong size for me on accident and i had to change the size!!!!! but i'm not sure if that has changed by now or not. i think what i am going to do is try to make an appointment soon to go back to the store and try it on again. i'm hoping that will help to allay any doubts that i have! (if not - it could be disastrous!) but hopefully it will be okay. i mean when i think about it objectively, there's nothing that i don't like about the dress. but i feel like i've lost that feeling about it that i initially had.. i dunno, i can't explain it!

jlt2010 Posted:

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you look amazing in the dress!!! and I think it's a good idea to go back and try on the dress again. Bring your mom or a good friend with you know knows you and your style.

Then stand, twirl, dance, jump, prance around in the fitting room and see if it makes you happy. I hope everything works out for you.
FutureLW Posted:

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I think you look amazing in the dress!!!!! Go try it on once more and I'm sure you'll fall in love with it all over again!

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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its totally normal to have these feelings, maybe you could call the store and see if you can go in and try it on again.

saribou13 Posted:

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aww thanks you guys!! i think one of my main fears about it is that it might not be elegant enough... like maybe it should be more simple or something, i feel like it might not go with my vision for the rest of the wedding... agh!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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I think dress doubts are totally normal You look stunning!!!
Becca2010 Posted:

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You look beautiful in your dress! I think these are normal feelings you are having and when you put on your dress again, you'll be back in the spot where you knew it was the ONE. Don't worry so much, just try and forget about it for a while...
Clover23 Posted:

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Awwww... you look gorgeous in the dress!!! Relax!!

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