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Dress Shopping

nicoleanddave Posted:

Dress Shopping

I went dressing shopping for the first time today. I've been very anxious about trying on dresses because I'm a plus size bride but I couldn't be more happy with the experience I had today. I went to Paradise Bridal (which I know has mixed reviews) and the ladies were so sweet. They didn't immediately bring me over to the plus size rack. When the appointment began and I told the girl what I wanted she immediately thought of a dress for me and I wound up loving the first dress I tried on. I tried on 5 other dresses and at the end of the appointment there was no push to sell me a dress, in fact she didnt even bring it up, she asked if there was anyone else I'd like to come and see the dress first.
I wound up going to bridal suite in centereach which was nice but the service wasn't as good and then I went to the bridal salon at Macy's in the smith haven mall and the women I got was very awkward and didn't make me feel comfortable at all. She immediately walked straight to the plus size section. I tried on two dresses and when I told her I didn't like the second dress and I wasn't ready to make a decision she kept pushing for this one other dress that I told her in the beginning I didn't like. Then she said how would i know without trying it on and I insisted I didn't like it. She then pointed to a dress hanging up and said that one is nice but I would have to clip you because it wouldnt close (it sounded like it would ruin her day to have to go to all the trouble of clipping a dress). Anyway I'm not letting that ruin my experience I found a dress I love but I think I'm going to shop around a little bit more just to make sure it's the one.

Jill52787 Posted:

Re: Dress Shopping

I can't believe some of the service is so bad! Aren't these people on commission? Youd think theyd want a sale! i know how u feel i wouldnt buy from anyone I didn't feel comfortable with.

I also went to paradise today, and had a really good experience. Even though i had tried on my dress weeks ago i didn't feel comfortable saying 'yes' until today. Don't feel pressured!!!
deeda1129 Posted:

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that's great to hear!! thanks for your story :) i'm stressed about starting to look/try on

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