dress shopping tip
You say you've found the dress of your dreams. But are you sure? Before putting down a deposit that could prove impossible to retrieve in the event of an emergency, give yourself time to sit down, relax, and make your decision carefully.
Ask yourself the following questions to make sure this is the right dress for you:
Do you really love the dress-or are you just tired of shopping? Be honest. Is this the gown that makes you feel like royalty? Now is the time to change your mind -- not the month prior to the wedding.
Did you pick it because your mom, maid of honor or a saleswoman insisted it was perfect? It's difficult to hear your inner voice in the midst of so many others giving you their opinions. All the more reason to take the time to think it over quietly to yourself. You may even decide to go back by yourself to consider the dress again.
Are you busting your bridal budget? As nice as it would be to wear it again, the gown will spend one day on you and the next 50 years on a hanger. The more you spend, the less there is left over for your first home, retirement account or new car.
Does it flatter your figure? Petite women get lost in dresses with lots of accessories; a mermaid-style get-up is not the best choice for a plus-sized bride.
Can you walk in it? The hem should stop just above your toes in front. The only time you should need to lift the skirt is getting in and out of a car or going up and down steps.
Are you comfortable? You'll be kissing, hugging and dancing with people all day long. You won't enjoy yourself if you're stressed about ripping an arm seam while dancing with your new husband.
Did you try on the gown with your chosen shoes and bra? Shoes of a different height and different undergarments can completely change the lay of a dress.
Is it too heavy? 'A little heavy' will feel like a ton by the time the reception is over. These dresses have a substantial weight to them. Get a gown that you can wear -- not a gown that wears you.
Is it right for the season? Have you chosen a spaghetti-strapped dress for winter? A Cinderella ball gown for summer? You don't want to sweat or shiver throughout your nuptials.
Does the bridal-gown contract mean I can get stuck with this gown? If so, how much money will you have to put down? What alterations, delivery dates or mishaps will the designer or salon be responsible for? Read through the contract thoroughly. If it looks like it will be impossible to change your mind after the deposit is in place, consider all of the above points again for your own protection and satisfaction!
Ask yourself the following questions to make sure this is the right dress for you:
Do you really love the dress-or are you just tired of shopping? Be honest. Is this the gown that makes you feel like royalty? Now is the time to change your mind -- not the month prior to the wedding.
Did you pick it because your mom, maid of honor or a saleswoman insisted it was perfect? It's difficult to hear your inner voice in the midst of so many others giving you their opinions. All the more reason to take the time to think it over quietly to yourself. You may even decide to go back by yourself to consider the dress again.
Are you busting your bridal budget? As nice as it would be to wear it again, the gown will spend one day on you and the next 50 years on a hanger. The more you spend, the less there is left over for your first home, retirement account or new car.
Does it flatter your figure? Petite women get lost in dresses with lots of accessories; a mermaid-style get-up is not the best choice for a plus-sized bride.
Can you walk in it? The hem should stop just above your toes in front. The only time you should need to lift the skirt is getting in and out of a car or going up and down steps.
Are you comfortable? You'll be kissing, hugging and dancing with people all day long. You won't enjoy yourself if you're stressed about ripping an arm seam while dancing with your new husband.
Did you try on the gown with your chosen shoes and bra? Shoes of a different height and different undergarments can completely change the lay of a dress.
Is it too heavy? 'A little heavy' will feel like a ton by the time the reception is over. These dresses have a substantial weight to them. Get a gown that you can wear -- not a gown that wears you.
Is it right for the season? Have you chosen a spaghetti-strapped dress for winter? A Cinderella ball gown for summer? You don't want to sweat or shiver throughout your nuptials.
Does the bridal-gown contract mean I can get stuck with this gown? If so, how much money will you have to put down? What alterations, delivery dates or mishaps will the designer or salon be responsible for? Read through the contract thoroughly. If it looks like it will be impossible to change your mind after the deposit is in place, consider all of the above points again for your own protection and satisfaction!
