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Dresses--Ack! So hard to choose!

Original post by Pencils

Now I don't know what to do. I went to RK Bridal today. They didn't have the Watters dress I wanted to try on, the one I thought might be The Dress. (I had called a few weeks ago, but the girl might have misunderstood and thought I was asking if I could order it, not try it on.) Anyway, I tried on a few dresses. I was thinking that I wanted a romantic lace dress with a flowing sash. Originally, I was thinking 'garden wedding,' and that seemed most appropriate. And I love that look. Then, I realized that a garden wedding wasn't feasible, and we ended up booking Timber Point, which is a CC/ballroom (although not too formal, which is fine with me!) But I was still thinking lace dress, it only occured to me the other day that I could branch out as far as dresses were concerned, so I brought a few more ideas with me today. I tried on this dress, #1, which I had liked on their website, more as a 'let's see' sort of thing than being really serious. And I LOVED it. My mom loved it, she told me I looked like a princess. For the first time, I really felt like a bride. However, I also really loved this Allure Bridals dress I tried on, a long lace one along the lines I first wanted. Now I have to decide: crystals and satin, or lace and a sash? I saw another Casablanca dress I also really like, now that I'm looking. The other thing--the Casablanca dress is significantly cheaper than the Allure or the Watters dress I haven't tried on yet. As in, $300 cheaper, and considering we're watching every penny, that's a big deal... I never even looked at Allure dresses before because their ads and their website are so horrible, I just happened to see that dress on the hanger while waiting my turn! BTW, my mom loved the Allure dress too. She's no help. ;)

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Pencils Posted:

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No pictures, there were a lot of 'no camera' signs so I never got my camera out, even though there were a few times when my mom could have taken a picture when the salesperson was out of the fitting room.

I do need to try on a few more dresses. Although, if you guys notice, both of those dresses have almost exactly the same shape, they differ only in the details of fabric and trim, and a little bit in the bodice shape and the skirt.
You can't tell by looking at the picture of the Casablanca dress, but the skirt is very, very flattering. It's mostly flat in front, which gave me a flat stomach (which I don't really have right now) and it had these box pleats on the sides, which sound like they'd make me look hippy, but they didn't, they just belled out the skirt in a very pretty way. I guess the fullness of the pleats started low enough that it's obvious it's the dress and not my hips. Anyway, it's a lovely effect, and one that I've never seen before on a dress, not that I've looked that much. There's two other, similiar Casablanca dresses that I also like but didn't see to try on. Each is from a different season, and I'm wondering if they do a version of the same tank or V-neck dress each season, just change the details! Keep in mind with the second dress that the model has no boobs at all, so the bodice looks terrible, while I'm a 38DD and will fill that sucker out! Also I'm wondering how that dress would look with a sash tied around it...it's an ad in the current Modern Bride, BTW.

The more I thought about it overnight, I'm leaning towards the Casablanca dress, if only because of the price. We're on a very strict budget as we're paying for this ourselves (although my mom unexpectedly offered to pay towards my dress yesterday! Not the whole amount, she was shocked at how much dresses cost now. ) There's a lot I could do with $300, and considering how much trouble I'm having deciding in between, it's a significant factor. I talked to my fiance about it a bit--I'm discussing dresses with him, and showing them to him. I don't really believe in the whole total secrecy thing, although I'm not going to let him see me in the dress until the day. He's a real GUY, he can't remember the diff between two long white dresses, and it's hard for me to make a major decision without discussing it with him. We talk about everything--it's one of the reasons I'm marrying him!

But I'm going to find the Watters dress today, and these two Casablancas dresses. Anyone have suggestions for Long Island shops?
Pencils Posted:

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For some reason it's not letting me post both dresses, so here's the second:

And it's still not for some reason. Here's the link:

http://www.bestbridalprices.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=1_110&products_id=4579

Casablanca hasn't put their Spring 07 dresses on their website yet for some reason.
DanNette Posted:

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My vote goes to the second one!
Shmar Posted:

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I like something more traditional, and I think #1 is prettier. It doesn't have as much going on, but it's still elegant and beautiful.

Maybride07 Posted:

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#2, so Pretty!!

nicothy Posted:

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i really like #2,
RudysMom Posted:

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Posted by SReidy

I LOVE the 2nd dress- it looks timeless.



I agree - great description!
hmv12 Posted:

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Posted by SReidy

I LOVE the 2nd dress- it looks timeless.



I agree
iffy Posted:

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no question....#2!
Pencils Posted:

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I like something more traditional, and I think #1 is prettier. It doesn't have as much going on, but it's still elegant and beautiful

That's not really a great picture of #1. In person, you see all the beading and crystals on the bodice and the skirt. I was wondering if it was too much for a daytime wedding. It really looked wonderful on me, and I felt totally 'bridal' in it.

BTW, it's really hard to type with a big puffball of a kitten who keeps jumping into my arms and on top of my hands as I'm typing. I've been trying to post a picture of her (Agatha) as my avatar but it doesn't come up. Got to figure that out. She's a Maine Coon mix we got from the pound, and is just wonderful. I never had a cat before, never was a cat person, but now I see why people get so silly about them.
CrazyLove Posted:

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dress #2 is stunning!!

Julybride08 Posted:

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I love the 1st one.

LaurenF Posted:

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#2!!! Love it!

beautyq115 Posted:

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I love #1 the best

danielle19755 Posted:

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#2

mycrayon1 Posted:

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I love the bothtoo!!!! If I had to choose between them for a less informal/garden kind of theme I would go with #2!
HTH

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