Does FH's and my wedding bands have to match?? Can we have different ones? What is normally done? Does it matter? What is everyone doing?
eogara
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You can do whatever you want. I know it's really important to some people to have their bands match. FH thought we 'had' to... but I set him straight since I wanted DIAMONDS
He's getting a fairly plain white gold band (brushed gold with polished gold ridges) and I'm getting a platinum eternity band.
CubanBride
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No, the rings don't have to be the same. We are having the same rings, but that was a personal choice.
snowprincess805
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it is a personal coice if you have them matc or not
we are not i have a very antique enggement ring so my band is antique looking -he wants a more modern band - i think it is best to pick what you both like because then you will wear it more
pmnkm
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ours don't match...i say get whatever you like!
newbie
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Ours don't either. We just got what we liked.
pattyp
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Thanks. Once again you were all very helpful. I have a feeling we will be getting different bands.
dpli
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I have a diamond one, which was my mom's, but I got a plain one that matches DH. I agree, it is a personal choice. One of my friends couldn't imagine not having matching bands, but her wedding and E-ring are the only jewelry she wears and she didn't want diamonds in her band. I think most people I know got the same color - so both B&G got white gold or platinum or both got yellow gold.
lilmrs
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Our's don't match either. It really is a matter of personal preference.
AnniesSS
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Nope, don't have to match. I want one that has a row of diamonds and FH wants one that is brushed. He's tried on more rings then I have, but he wants to be sure he will be comfy wearing it - which is very important to both of us.
