Dumb Questions about Bridal Shower

Ok girl I have a few questions about bridal shower, neither my MOH or I have ever planned one.

1. Who exactly should I invite to the bridal shower

2. Anyone having a jack and jill shower (I am)

3. Do you think I should have it at a restaurant or at home? I'd hate my MOH to spend alot of $$

4. Any reasonable quotes for restaurants in nassau?

Sorry for all the questions

1. Who exactly should I invite to the bridal shower
I invited about 40 women who I am really close to like friends, family, and a few co workers,,,,i just could invite not everyone

2. Anyone having a jack and jill shower
I didnt

3. Do you think I should have it at a restaurant or at home? I'd hate my MOH to spend alot of $$
At home would be cheaper than a resturant...we orderd wings, subs, and pizzas to cut cost instead of some fancy dinner


4. Any reasonable quotes for restaurants in nassau? Cant help you on this one

I am inviting family members and close friends.

I am also having a jack and jill bridal shower
Fh wants me to stop calling it a bridal shower bc hes embarrased LOL!!!

I am thinking of a backyard BBQ to save money because I dont want my bridal party spending a whole lot of money.... BUT we have to still cut the guest list down some more because since it's a combined boys and girls shower, there are a lot more family and close friends combined.

1. Who exactly should I invite to the bridal shower?

Any woman invited to the wedding can be invited, but I would limit it to people you or FH know well. Family, friends, FMIL's family.

2. Anyone having a jack and jill shower (I am)?

No, but if he is up for it why not. Usually guys would fight you on it, even my guy who is into the wedding would never go for that.

3. Do you think I should have it at a restaurant or at home? I'd hate my MOH to spend alot of $$

I am having it at my parents Beach Club in the clubhouse. My mom is paying the rental fee, which is cheap, and my MOH and BMs are paying to bring inexpensive food in (sandwiches, etc.) I have seen showers in people's living rooms with subs or pizza and I have seen formal affairs with three course sit down dinners (or brunches), favors, name cards and the works... and everything in between.



4. Any reasonable quotes for restaurants in nassau? Not to familiar with Nassau. Sorry.