Oh hell no. I'm sorry but you have to wear that on your hand FOREVER, I'd politely explain to her that this ring was intended for a man and you appreciate her help, but you'd be happy to purchase your own.
Posted by JLWSJC
Awwww... I agree with you, I'd be upset about it too,
When you talk to FH, just make sure you're not super emotional or angry. Just be level and clear and logical. I'm sure he'll understand, hon. Good luck.
ETA< were you planning on being able to wear your E-ring with your band? Cause clearly with that, you can't, I think that's your best argument.
ETA #2: THe jeweler is a moron if they knew they were selling the band to serve as a WOMAN's wedding band.![]()
Posted by Lsorrent
Ok, yea it definitely is too big for your finger. Your FH doesn't see that?
I would *calmly* explain to him that you just think it looks too big on your finger and it won't sit properly with your e-ring.
TALK TO FH!!!! Make him see that this ring does not make u happy. and it CLEARLY does not look like a womans ring!
Posted by Becca2010
It's not terrible, but it IS too thick for your finger. Maybe if it was just the thickness of the diamonds in the middle without the thickness around it?
Regardless, like the other girls mentioned, try not to get very emotional and angry when talking about the ring. It was a gift and you need to handle the situation delicately and calmly. I'm sure you'll be fine!!
It is a bit thick and doesnt really go with your e-ring. Just tell him they dont match and it makes no sense to have a ring that doesnt match. You dont even have to say you hate it : )
First off so sorry you had to deal with that. I agree with you though (sorry) that it looks like a man's ring. But you are right, this is the ring you are going to wear for the rest of your life and you should love it uncomditionally. Godd Luck
