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Relish21 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Awww hunnyyyy..... I do see what u mean
Is FH gonna help u out with talking to his fam?
wenR Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I would'nt have called it that before you mentioned it. Nevertheless, If you don't like it..you should let him know. You should get something you are proud of showing...

JLWSJC Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Awwww... I agree with you, I'd be upset about it too,

When you talk to FH, just make sure you're not super emotional or angry. Just be level and clear and logical. I'm sure he'll understand, hon. Good luck.

ETA< were you planning on being able to wear your E-ring with your band? Cause clearly with that, you can't, I think that's your best argument.

ETA #2: THe jeweler is a moron if they knew they were selling the band to serve as a WOMAN's wedding band.
xela Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I didnt see previous post but yeah I agree if thats suppose to be your wedding band then you need to have a talk with FH.

mariedsgn Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Posted by JLWSJC

Awwww... I agree with you, I'd be upset about it too,

When you talk to FH, just make sure you're not super emotional or angry. Just be level and clear and logical. I'm sure he'll understand, hon. Good luck.

ETA< were you planning on being able to wear your E-ring with your band? Cause clearly with that, you can't, I think that's your best argument.



awwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!! I Agree!
SoonToBMrsC Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Definitely talk to ur FH, they can't make you feel obligated to wearing a ring that you don't like.
Becca2010 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

It's not terrible, but it IS too thick for your finger. Maybe if it was just the thickness of the diamonds in the middle without the thickness around it?

Regardless, like the other girls mentioned, try not to get very emotional and angry when talking about the ring. It was a gift and you need to handle the situation delicately and calmly. I'm sure you'll be fine!!
MrsSx2 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

OMG it really is a man ring I'm sorry. Hopefully your FH will understand! Good luck!
Meli620 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Can you make a plea, like it won't fit on your finger with your engagement ring?

netsirk10 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

it is rather thick and really just does not go with your engagement ring at all. i think you have every right to say something and not feel wrong in doing so!
Lu2700 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

hmmmm yea to be honest, it does kinda look a little manly. i think it's cause it's such thick gold and it's really flat on top. ....maybe if it curved to ur finger then it wouldnt look manly?

i would just be honest with ur fh......i feel like ur wedding band should be something ur proud and happy to wear...so i think u should just be honest and tell him that ur not too happy with it. good luck!
Never2Part Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I agree with you.... It really doesn't look right.
SoontobeGallagher Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

OH no! I read and posted on your last post! This ring does not even match your e-ring if it was a man ring or not, but it def is a man ring. I would talk to FH ASAP!!!

SummerBride10 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I can def. see why you're upset...the ring does look like a man ring and it doesnt match.

I think someone else said it and ITA- just say it doesnt match your ering adn you want to wear them together!
elp6421 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I see what you mean. It does look very manly. Have you shown FH what the two rings look like together? Maybe after he sees that he will realize the two style just do not match.

StaceyWill Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

I def see why you were upset.
Lsorrent Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

Ok, yea it definitely is too big for your finger. Your FH doesn't see that?

I would *calmly* explain to him that you just think it looks too big on your finger and it won't sit properly with your e-ring.
Jna2010 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

yeah i agree with you that definitely does not look too feminine..... speak up about it there is no reason why you should spend the rest of your life hating your wedding band

kerber981 Posted:

Re: the ring that made me cry (a.k.a. my MAN ring)

It's not a terrible ring but it def does not match your ering. Keep us posted and good luck!

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