So, if STDs were never sent out, would the consensus be that invites to the wedding must be sent out prior to invites to the shower, therefore hosting the shower much closer to the wedding?
Would you, and or should anyone feel insulted by being the recipient of an invite to a bridal shower without first receiving an invite to the wedding?
tricia3381
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as far as i know the shower invites are typically sent out prior to the wedding invites since the wedding is after the shower. so you should be fine. HTH!!
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Shower should be sent before wedding invites!
TLC1018
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I would think that the shower invites would go out before the wedding invites...
enjft
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Posted by TLC1018
I would think that the shower invites would go out before the wedding invites...
ditto
libby2595
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Shower should be sent before wedding invites!
ditto. they are two separate events. the shower is before the wedding.
eta: i'm from the carribbean, and this is always how it's done
Vicky423
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if you sent STD then yes before the invite, if no STDs then after. I did mine after cause I didnt send STDs.
akaMrsT
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Posted by Vicky423
if you sent STD then yes before the invite, if no STDs then after. I did mine after cause I didnt send STDs.
Ditto. We sent out shower invites AFTER wedding invites. We did not send out STD's and did not want to invite people to the shower that we were not certain would be invited to the wedding.
PegaLega
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They are supposed to go out before wedding invitations
Sweet_Face
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Thanks for your responses... I edited the post to ask two other questions as it relates to the same matter...
GinaZ
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My cousin sent out shower invites before the wedding invites went out. But she did do STD's. If someone is invited to the shower, then they assume they are invited to the wedding.
HTH
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Posted by tricia3381
as far as i know the shower invites are typically sent out prior to the wedding invites since the wedding is after the shower. so you should be fine. HTH!!
me too.
MeNBobs
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Isn't it poor etiquette to send out invites for your shower? I thought someone was supposed to host the shower in the brides honor. The host would send out the invites.
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Posted by MeNBobs
Isn't it poor etiquette to send out invites for your shower? I thought someone was supposed to host the shower in the brides honor. The host would send out the invites.
I think this is what she meant but worded it wrong...
:) But, yes, otherwise i have to agree with you 100%
cindyandkevin
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Not only were my shower invites sent out already but I HAD my shower before we sent the wedding invitations out. It's perfectly fine!!
Espo22
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Posted by MeNBobs
Isn't it poor etiquette to send out invites for your shower? I thought someone was supposed to host the shower in the brides honor. The host would send out the invites.
THANK YOU!!!!!!! as i am reading this im like wait, youre not supposed to send out your own shower invites hahahaha i thought i was going crazy, i was just about to post that lol
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Not of Caribbean heritage, but from what i have seen bridal shower is sent out first.
