i just sent one of my bm's an email she and i have not been in touch since my engagement party in May!!!!
and I kind of want to give her an out! she is too unreliable!!!!! and not responsible with her money
do you think it is rude?
Yofei18
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i had same question here about 3 weeks ago... the answer i got is talk to her first... I did, and i still want her out.. but dont have teh courage to do it...but anyway...def talk to her first
xXxNovember08xXx
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Posted by jcslady
i just sent one of my bm's an email she and i have not been in touch since my engagement party in May!!!!
and I kind of want to give her an out! she is too unreliable!!!!! and not responsible with her money
do you think it is rude?
wow me too!!!
its been a MIA situation since june...
what i am doing is sending the girls i 'question' a card in the mail askign them personally if they woudl still liek to be involved....
i woudl recommond a face to face or phone conversation FIRST, as the girls on here and recommonded.. but with my situation.. discussion has already happened about being distant 2 times already and she will no call me back, return emails... etc....
good luck with everything!!
AS
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I dont think its rude at all. You have to be 100% sure you want this person in and if you dont feel this way its ok to say sorry but I dont want you in.
mendi725
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def not rude...get her out before it's too late. You'll be the one having to deal with aggravation during your wedding planning year. You are going to have enough stress.
kristi313
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i unfortunately did that as a test. my 'best friend' and i haven't spoken since memorial day weekend. no contact whatsoever. i was leary of her dedication to me as a friend in general, and this answered my question. sometimes it ***** when peoples true colors come out, but i know i'm better off this way.
