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engagement party gifts...

Original post by JnD110808

Our engagement party is in a few weeks and my FMIL told us we have to open gifts up not envelopes but gifts. I really do not want to and I told her I didn't want to and she thought i was being difficult. I've asked around and no one seems to have opened during the party. Did anyone open up gifts?

kslmbuggie Posted:

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I hate opening gifts in front of people because it is pretty hard to mask your disappointment...try 2 talk her out of it.

angl2001 Posted:

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we did but only bacause the older people really wanted us to...we also had a small party. we didnt open envelopes tho

Espo22 Posted:

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ive never seen or heard of this, maybe if you had a small one at the home-MAYBE...we didnt open anything up, we didnt receive any gifts, just cash but even if we did i wouldnt have opened up gifts at the party...an e-party yes ppl bring gifts but it should not be something that is obligated of ppl, by opening up gifts it might show that it was EXPECTED

mariaobride Posted:

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no I didn't open any of them until we got home

mendi725 Posted:

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We only got a few and we didn't. you don't have to do anything your not comfortable with.

JACSANT Posted:

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nope, didnt open them.

menc Posted:

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We opened them after, just tell her you don't feel comfortable and would like to open them later. You will be sending thank you's

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