so as guests are rsvping no, a lot of them are sending checks with their rsvps. are u supposed to hold all these checks and deposit them with the rest of our checks we get at the wedding? or are we supposed to cash them now as they're coming in? does that make us seem greedy? what did everyone else do?
Thats-What-She-Said
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I say cash them now. If people wanted you to wait until the wedding they would date it the day of, or send it with a card separately.
Future Mrs H
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I say cash them now. If people wanted you to wait until the wedding they would date it the day of, or send it with a card separately.
ITA
StaceyWill
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I deposited them as I received them, I didn't want to screw up the people's checking accounts. I know when I write out a check, it drives me crazy if the person doesn't cash it right away.
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This is just a personal opinion....but I think ALL checks should be cashed asap so people can keep track of their finances. They are intending for that money to go to you and out of their account. If you leave it sit there- they may forget and assume that you have already taken the funds and over spend/ overdraw?
Maybe I'm wrong though?
I say deposit/ cash them STAT!
Danielle soon to be mrs b
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yeah thats what i told FH...that it might screw up everyone bank accounts! thanks for the advice ladies!
MikesBride2B
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Whoops...guess I should go to the bank soon.
Lsorrent
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We deposited them as they came in
JLWSJC
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Whoops...guess I should go to the bank soon.
Lucky2010
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Posted by DreamyD
This is just a personal opinion....but I think ALL checks should be cashed asap so people can keep track of their finances. They are intending for that money to go to you and out of their account. If you leave it sit there- they may forget and assume that you have already taken the funds and over spend/ overdraw?
Maybe I'm wrong though?
I say deposit/ cash them STAT!
Agree 100%!!! Especially if they have other bills and things to pay.
Future Mrs H
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Whoops...guess I should go to the bank soon.
pipermaru
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i would cash them as you get them
Shallots
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I was just coming here with this same question! Thanks for your answers, everybody.
AngnShaun
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I deposited them as I received them, I didn't want to screw up the people's checking accounts. I know when I write out a check, it drives me crazy if the person doesn't cash it right away.
same...
flibbertigibbet
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CASH 'EM.
SoontobeGallagher
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I wish we got some checks with our no's.
es2189
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I wish we got some checks with our no's.
haha me too!!
GR2010
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Cash them now but send a thank you first. I hate when I send someone a check and it takes them forever to cash it. I sent someone a check the 2nd week of June and she still hasn't cashed it.
ourwedding9510
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I wish we got some checks with our no's.
DATE TWIN! I'm the same way! We only have 8 no's but still no checks.
bluj786
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Posted by DreamyD
This is just a personal opinion....but I think ALL checks should be cashed asap so people can keep track of their finances. They are intending for that money to go to you and out of their account. If you leave it sit there- they may forget and assume that you have already taken the funds and over spend/ overdraw?
Maybe I'm wrong though?
I say deposit/ cash them STAT!
ITA, i hate when i have a check sitting there that no one cashed
