my friend is having a destination wedding, im in her bp (the dress was $200), the flight $250, contributed $75 to shower, at least $150 for bachelorette party, plus the accomodations-so basically, its costing me a fortune-am i expected to give a gift in addition? If so, how much? i dont want to be cheap, but i barely have money for my own wedding.....NEED ADVICE
ace730
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I was in a similiar situation last year. A friend of mine got married in New Mexico and it was a very pricey trip for me. I went alone and I gave $60. I think that was the norm. Most couples gave @$100. I felt bad giving so little, but I honestly could not afford to give more.
I do think you should give something, but it doesn't have to be a lot. I am sure your friend will understand.
debzy
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Technically, you do not have to give a gift if it's a destination wedding, especially when you're paying so much.
But, the couple might still be expecting something small. Can you swing like $50 a person?
michelle1024
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Posted by debzy
Technically, you do not have to give a gift if it's a destination wedding, especially when you're paying so much.
But, the couple might still be expecting something small. Can you swing like $50 a person?
that's what i was thinking...i would try for $100 for me and fh
gina409
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Posted by michelle1024
Posted by debzy
Technically, you do not have to give a gift if it's a destination wedding, especially when you're paying so much.
But, the couple might still be expecting something small. Can you swing like $50 a person?
that's what i was thinking...i would try for $100 for me and fh
