So i have a couple of coworkers who are gay. THey are in a serious relationship and live together. we all know this but i dont know if they are 'out' to everyone. technically. They both wear rings..yada yada...do I invite them on one invite? or separates? if i do separates do i invite them with guest? help!
BUMP because I need this answer, too.
tricky...what i would do, and by all means you dont have to do it this way, but what i would do is just ask them. i find that if you ask questions about people who either are a different culture, religion, and even sexual orientation if you are being genuine and just ask people are usually more than willing to discuss things. I find that people appreciate it that you show an interest and concern for their feelings. You could say something like, I'm not sure how you would feel most comfortable but I want to invite you and your partner to my wedding, how should I address the invite and evelope in a way that is appropriate for the 2 of you. Sorry this is so long! HTH!
This is a tough one, I would say if they live together, they would get one invitation, that's how we're doing it, I don't know EXACT etiquette but I would do Mr. Joseph Smith and Mr. Michael Brown, on separate lines, HTH
Posted by SoonToBeMrsR
tricky...what i would do, and by all means you dont have to do it this way, but what i would do is just ask them. i find that if you ask questions about people who either are a different culture, religion, and even sexual orientation if you are being genuine and just ask people are usually more than willing to discuss things. I find that people appreciate it that you show an interest and concern for their feelings. You could say something like, I'm not sure how you would feel most comfortable but I want to invite you and your partner to my wedding, how should I address the invite and evelope in a way that is appropriate for the 2 of you. Sorry this is so long! HTH!
i would just ask them what they would like
Posted by gina409
Posted by SoonToBeMrsR
tricky...what i would do, and by all means you dont have to do it this way, but what i would do is just ask them. i find that if you ask questions about people who either are a different culture, religion, and even sexual orientation if you are being genuine and just ask people are usually more than willing to discuss things. I find that people appreciate it that you show an interest and concern for their feelings. You could say something like, I'm not sure how you would feel most comfortable but I want to invite you and your partner to my wedding, how should I address the invite and evelope in a way that is appropriate for the 2 of you. Sorry this is so long! HTH!
i agree 100 percent..just what i was going to say
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Posted by gina409
Posted by SoonToBeMrsR
tricky...what i would do, and by all means you dont have to do it this way, but what i would do is just ask them. i find that if you ask questions about people who either are a different culture, religion, and even sexual orientation if you are being genuine and just ask people are usually more than willing to discuss things. I find that people appreciate it that you show an interest and concern for their feelings. You could say something like, I'm not sure how you would feel most comfortable but I want to invite you and your partner to my wedding, how should I address the invite and evelope in a way that is appropriate for the 2 of you. Sorry this is so long! HTH!
i agree 100 percent..just what i was going to say
thats great advice...hes my boss so its awkward lol
Posted by jennaandguy09
This is a tough one, I would say if they live together, they would get one invitation, that's how we're doing it, I don't know EXACT etiquette but I would do Mr. Joseph Smith and Mr. Michael Brown, on separate lines, HTH
Posted by jennaandguy09
This is a tough one, I would say if they live together, they would get one invitation, that's how we're doing it, I don't know EXACT etiquette but I would do Mr. Joseph Smith and Mr. Michael Brown, on separate lines, HTH
Posted by jennaandguy09
This is a tough one, I would say if they live together, they would get one invitation, that's how we're doing it, I don't know EXACT etiquette but I would do Mr. Joseph Smith and Mr. Michael Brown, on separate lines, HTH
