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Etiquette question-please help!!

rugs88 Posted:

Etiquette question-please help!!

My fiance and I decided to cancel our big wedding reception, but we are still together and still getting married a few months later than our original date and are having a smaller ceremony. The problem is, I already had a shower. Since we are still getting married, do I return the gifts? My mom and sisters said that I would have been thrown a shower anyway regardless of what type of wedding we are having. What do i do?? Thanks!

diamondgrlie Posted:

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I would keep the gifts, you would have a shower no matter what but the tricky part will be if you arent inviting women to your wedding who already gave you a shower gift.

july06bride Posted:

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Posted by diamondgrlie

I would keep the gifts, you would have a shower no matter what but the tricky part will be if you arent inviting women to your wedding who already gave you a shower gift.



i was thinking the same thing,
suven Posted:

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I really think that anyone who was invited to your shower, attended, and gave you a gift NEEDS to be invited. JMHO

stephanief Posted:

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I agree that the people who went to your shower and gave you a gift should be invited to the wedding. If you cannot do that, then I would return those gifts


Good luck
Blu-ize Posted:

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Keep the gifts. Where are you having the ceremony?

candb Posted:

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I would keep the gifts, but for people who went to your shower who were invited to the first reception, but not the second, you should write to. People who go to a shower with a gift expect to be invited to the wedding.

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