etiquette-thank you cards=tip
There are two things that rank high on the newlywed stress list --mothers-in-law and thank-you notes. Sorry to say, there is no instant cure-all for dealing with the other woman in your life. But here are some easy tips for getting those dreaded thank-you notes out of your hair.
There's no 'proper' stationery for thank-you notes, but avoid using loose-leaf paper or other generic types of paper. Choose something that says the gift was special.
Match your stationery to your personality. Traditionally, wedding thank-you notes are written in blue or black ink on folded notepaper in ivory or white. If you choose, emboss your married name or monogram on the note. Just remember to use your maiden name on any pre-wedding thank-you notes.
Don't use pre-printed note cards. A hand-written note is a must. If you must use a computer due to a disability, make sure you include some remarks about your honeymoon or how you're using the present in your new life.
Personalize each note. Take the time to make each note warm and personal.
Be careful. Don't cross out words or misspellings. Messy ink blobs are a no-no. Start over if you make a mistake (so be sure to order some extra note cards).
To make it this task just a bit more fun, choose a special pen, such as a calligraphy or fountain pen, to help keep your interest.
Notes for gifts received before the wedding should be sent within two weeks of their arrival. Notes for gifts received on or after the wedding should be sent within one month of returning from the honeymoon.
The reason these little notes are so important is that this may be the only way the gift-giver knows you actually received the gift. If a gift is from a group (10 people or more), one written thank-you note is acceptable, but be sure and thank them all verbally.
Keep a copy of your invitation mailing list and record every gift you get, as you get it, next to the giver's name. This ensures accurate thank-you notes.
Document the day you send each thank-you note.
Set up a designated thank-you note writing area in your home. Have everything on hand to get started: pens, stamps, your gift list and stationery.
Give yourself a goal. Vow to write five or six thank-you notes a night and reward yourself with a small treat when you meet it.
Divvy up the thank-you list between the bride and groom. Both of you are responsible for thanking your guests.
There's no 'proper' stationery for thank-you notes, but avoid using loose-leaf paper or other generic types of paper. Choose something that says the gift was special.
Match your stationery to your personality. Traditionally, wedding thank-you notes are written in blue or black ink on folded notepaper in ivory or white. If you choose, emboss your married name or monogram on the note. Just remember to use your maiden name on any pre-wedding thank-you notes.
Don't use pre-printed note cards. A hand-written note is a must. If you must use a computer due to a disability, make sure you include some remarks about your honeymoon or how you're using the present in your new life.
Personalize each note. Take the time to make each note warm and personal.
Be careful. Don't cross out words or misspellings. Messy ink blobs are a no-no. Start over if you make a mistake (so be sure to order some extra note cards).
To make it this task just a bit more fun, choose a special pen, such as a calligraphy or fountain pen, to help keep your interest.
Notes for gifts received before the wedding should be sent within two weeks of their arrival. Notes for gifts received on or after the wedding should be sent within one month of returning from the honeymoon.
The reason these little notes are so important is that this may be the only way the gift-giver knows you actually received the gift. If a gift is from a group (10 people or more), one written thank-you note is acceptable, but be sure and thank them all verbally.
Keep a copy of your invitation mailing list and record every gift you get, as you get it, next to the giver's name. This ensures accurate thank-you notes.
Document the day you send each thank-you note.
Set up a designated thank-you note writing area in your home. Have everything on hand to get started: pens, stamps, your gift list and stationery.
Give yourself a goal. Vow to write five or six thank-you notes a night and reward yourself with a small treat when you meet it.
Divvy up the thank-you list between the bride and groom. Both of you are responsible for thanking your guests.
