Ever get that overwhelmed feeling.....

Original post by DiamondPipa

Aug 15, 2007 09:14 PM

...that makes you not want to have a wedding. I JUST WANT TO ELOPE.

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Aug 16, 2007 08:50 AM

Re: Ever get that overwhelmed feeling.....

Posted by DiamondPipa

...that makes you not want to have a wedding. I JUST WANT TO ELOPE.

i have had it since we got engaged and other peopel started putting in requests. AAAXXXXXXX.. it will all pass and in the end it will all be woth it.

Mizzdimple Posted: Aug 16, 2007 09:44 AM

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YES MANY MANY TIMES...then when its done you will look back and miss the planning....hang in there!

AntNick1101 Posted: Aug 16, 2007 09:44 AM

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Posted by little34

I hear ya....I feel like it is a lot of outside stuff that gets to be too much... everyone elses' input and 'suggestions.'

yeah with everyone's inputs and suggestions it doesn't seem to feel like your wedding anymore.

karabara Posted: Aug 16, 2007 01:09 PM

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Posted by AntNick1101

yeah with everyone's inputs and suggestions it doesn't seem to feel like your wedding anymore.

I totally agree! Yet, somehow everyone seems to follow up their 'suggestions' with a guilt trip, and then the added statement of: 'but it's your wedding, so it's up to you'

For example:
'You want a small wedding? But I have 36 friends I NEED to invite, in addition to the 50+ family members, or else there will be lifelong resentments from them to follow. Well, I guess I will invite everybody or nobody.....But it's you're wedding, so it's up to you'

schucap Posted: Aug 17, 2007 01:07 PM

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lol...I feel like this post was meant for me today. I totally just threatened to elope on the phone. We've had 7 months to plan and pay for our wedding and we've been traveling from DC pratically every weekend to do it. My parents were argueing with me over chair covers and the menu. Which would be fine if they were paying for it!!!!!!!!!!!!

Somedays I just want to be left alone!!!!!!!!! Today is definitely one of them!

rkl1130 Posted: Aug 17, 2007 01:08 PM

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I've wanted to be left alone for like the past 3 months!

I'm so over it and sometimes wished I had really pushed for Vegas...oh well....only a few more days to go....

JM4EVA Posted: Aug 17, 2007 02:10 PM

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Me too.....sometimes I just can't take eveyone. They want this, they want that...it's our wedding and we are paying for it so stop telling us what you want. Things have def gotten out of hand. Now we just take it one day at a time, but I am so ready for this wedding to be here and yet it is still so far away......

LoveRocks Posted: Aug 17, 2007 02:18 PM

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I feel your pain, girl!! I've been trying so hard to relax and enjoy our engagement, but there is still so much left to do! Everything will work out great and your wedding will be fabulous.

LaurenSchatz Posted: Aug 17, 2007 03:35 PM

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I just wonder what the H*LL I am going to do with my time once its over!

Mooshyboo Posted: Aug 17, 2007 07:34 PM

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yes A LOT more lately ~ FH wanted to do that right from the beginning... and every now and then I say I should have listened to you = plus it would have been ALOT cheaper!!

2Be1 Posted: Aug 17, 2007 08:08 PM

Re: Ever get that overwhelmed feeling.....

Posted by DiamondPipa

...that makes you not want to have a wedding. I JUST WANT TO ELOPE.

Girl please, welcome to group I say this AT LEAST once per day!!!! I am absolutely SICK of this wedding and if FH and I wouldn't loose thousands of our hard earned $$$ I would totally elope at this point.

AS Posted: Aug 17, 2007 08:12 PM

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Ohhhhhh man, its just the beginning. I am scarede when I get closer and closer to the wedd

jeanne08 Posted: Aug 17, 2007 08:14 PM

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FH and I have thought that a few times already. Take a deep breath and walk away from it for a little while. You'll feel better.

katt711 Posted: Aug 17, 2007 09:14 PM

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I sure do....I have less than 2 months to go...work has been crazy.....I have so much to do yet, and I just found out my mom has to have minor surgery on monday....for another minor surgery on
friday. My stomach is a wreck....