Everyone one of my BM's said they cant go to my bachelorette party!

Original post by FutureMrsGK

Oct 03, 2007 11:23 AM

IM SO PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MY POOR SISTER TRIED TO DO SOMETHING NICE AND INVITED ALL MY GIRLS TO A SMALL BACHELORETTE PARTY, SPA, DINNER THEN COMEDY CLUB.

EVERY ONE OF THEM SAID NO, AFTER I HAVE BENT OVER BACKWARDS FOR EACH AND EVERY ONE OF THEM!!! I UNDERSTAND THEY HAVE KIDS BUT THEY CANT GIVE ME ONE NIGHT OF THEIR FRICKING TIME. THEY HAVENT DONE ONE THING TO HELP TOWARDS THIS WEDDING!!!!! I HAVE 4 BM'S TWO OF THEM I THREW BABY SHOWERS FOR, ONE OF THEM I PAID FOR HER DRESS!!!!!! AND THE LAST ONE IS MY NEIGHBOR WHO I BABY SIT HER DOG ALLLLLL THE TIME! ALL I CAN SAY IS WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO? I CANT STAND THIS KIND OF TENSION AND DRAMA BUT IM NOT LETTING THEM GET AWAY WITH THIS. NOW MY BACHELLORETTE NIGHT IS CANCELLED B/C OF NO ONE GOING. I FEEL LIKE SUCH A LOSER :(

DeannaNDave07 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 02:51 PM

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you will have a great time with your sister!! sorry you had to go through this.

amytee Posted: Oct 03, 2007 02:52 PM

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Brian and Marie Posted: Oct 03, 2007 02:53 PM

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Posted by carolinep24

I'll go to your B party! WHOS WITH ME?!

I AM!!

carolinebr Posted: Oct 03, 2007 03:07 PM

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Maybe it's a money thing....?

If it makes you feel better, I didn't have a bachelorette party and you know what, it made NO DIFFERENCE in the end.

At the time, I felt like a loser but looking back I still married the guy I love & I didn't have an embarrassing night out or a hang over.

I say go do the spa thing with your sister! And why not have FH & his buddies come with?

CourtandJon Posted: Oct 03, 2007 04:01 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsGK

Posted by Brian and Marie

Is it possible your sister is lying in an attempt to suprise you???????

Marie,

I just clicked on your name. I went to high school with you!!!! How are you!? We worked together too at Hallmark, Do you remember?

Thank you to all of you for making me feel so much better. my sister and me are going to go spoil ourselves and forget about every one else. but i will say what goes around will come around!

YES, go out with your sister and have an amazing time!!!!!!!!!! F them!!!!!!

nycerika318 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 04:15 PM

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Wow, that is not nice! Is it possible to go to the spa with your sister for the day and then have them meet you for a night out?

What were their excuses?

Nov2007bride Posted: Oct 03, 2007 06:13 PM

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Sorry to hear that! That really *****. They really should go b/c they're bms unless something important really came up!

billandme Posted: Oct 03, 2007 07:03 PM

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That totally sukcs sweetie!!!!

But you know what? You don't need a huge group to go out with for you Bach party. Go with your sister......do what you planned......you'll still have a great time If you want more than just you two, then maybe invite some other friends, or co-workers .........

NO matter how many are there, you'll still have a wonderful time........

SylvieB Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:28 PM

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Posted by Brian and Marie

Is it possible your sister is lying in an attempt to suprise you???????

I was thinking the same thing...
Sounds weird that not even ONE of them can make it.

ligirlz Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:34 PM

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I am so sorry they are treating you like this. I wouldn't cancel anything you and your sis should go and have a nice night out by yourselves. You 2 deserve it if you are the ones planning everything. It will be thier loss.

ratherbealeper Posted: Oct 03, 2007 10:12 PM

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if its not a cover-up for the surprise , then eff them.

While not everyone realizes what a huge deal this is for you (i know dumb, how could you not know how impt this is??) dont let it ruin your time. Go out and have a good time.

Care about those who care about you, go out of your way for those who give you the same and thats it!

sorry, this is so s h i t t y

CMaria81 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 10:25 PM

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Posted by Brian and Marie

Posted by carolinep24

I'll go to your B party! WHOS WITH ME?!

I AM!!

Me too! Or maybe some of the girl's who haven't had their bachelorette party want to have a joint one? I'm down!

beachprincess Posted: Oct 03, 2007 10:52 PM

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Aw Honey, do not worry about it!! My bridesmaids are giving me grief too. Half of them dropped out of the wedding for various reasons. The other half failed to show up for their Bridesmaid's Luncheon and a few will not even call me back to give me their address. AHHHHH!!!!!!! Believe me when I say I totally understand how you feel. To make matters worse, I gave one of these girls a kick butt bachelorette party.

You should go out with your sister and do the same exact stuff she had planned. Why should you not get a Bachelorette Party just cause your BMs are stupid. Are there any other friends not in the wedding that you could invite??? Maybe if you go out by yourself people will feel bad and give you money.

Don't let em get you down!!