What would you say has been the hardest part of the planning process thus far? Easiest?
LATOYA
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The hardest part for me was paying off the vendors. It was easy to pick but hard to pay. Why couldn't I just hit the lotto
SummerBeauty
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Definitely having your heart set on something you can't afford.
FutureWifey
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Dealing with family. They have expectations that are just a little unrealistic.
cdh2672
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I agree with all of the above! haha... I always had my heart set on having a band, but we just can't afford it. It will still be great i'm sure!
Debbie2011
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the hardest part for us was finding the venue. we originally wanted a particular venue, and when things with that one fell through, we had to start over again. it was just physically and emotionally draining going to check out all those venues. but it was all worth it in the end, because in the end we felt that we could not have found a more perfect venue for us.
the easiest? definitely the dress. it was just me and my mom. we went to one store, tried on about 10 dresses (the second one i tried on was the one i purchased), and that was it.
KrisBren2011
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Dealing w/ the FILS!!!!! AAAAAAH
Bride in 2012
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The hardest part was dealing with the bridesmaid from hell. Luckily her friend wound up getting engaged and booked her wedding for the same day as mine so she dropped out of mine (after committing to mine 6months before her friend) to be in her friends (and I cut her off). BLESSING IN DISGUISE!
dunnkat
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Finding the money to pay everything,dealing with family drama,, and feeling overwhelmed by everything in general !
StephanieJoy
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Posted by LATOYA
The hardest part for me was paying off the vendors. It was easy to pick but hard to pay. Why couldn't I just hit the lotto
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JW2
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The hardest part has been making little decisions (escort cards, table numbers, etc). The easiest part was big decisions (RH, DJ, limo etc). I know, it makes absolutely no sense!
kattus
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Worrying about little things such as rain or coming down with a nasty cold right before the big day.
oh, and money. I'm paying for most of it, save for a few things fh can help out with, and my parents have agreed to take care of my dress. but I'm stressed about breaking it to the groomsmen that they have to pay for their own tux rental.
JTG4EVER
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Posted by KrisBren2011
Dealing w/ the FILS!!!!! AAAAAAH
Ditto
LIbridey88
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Finding out my super calm cool and collected fiance is a closet GROOMZILLA! Sheesh! Hes got all these opinions
michelletmiller7
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I know the feeling, were on a very very strict budget and I just started planning and I feel like bursting into tears
Alannah22
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So far the hardest thing was the BM dresses. One of my BMs is hard to please.
KristyANDMatt224
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Posted by FutureWifey
Dealing with family. They have expectations that are just a little unrealistic.
THIS. and not always 'unrealistic expectations', it's the fact that family members have an opinion about everything and don't know when to shut it! Luckily, FH has started the 'blame it on me' alibi. Whenever I don't like something I just say that Matt won't do that/doesn't like that. It keeps the pressure off of me and i don't look like the bad guy
CroatianBride
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Posted by JW2
The hardest part has been making little decisions (escort cards, table numbers, etc). The easiest part was big decisions (RH, DJ, limo etc). I know, it makes absolutely no sense!
Same here!!! The small details will be the end of me!
Yankeeelove
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My dad passing away unexpectedly 3 months before my wedding. The only thing that upsets me is knowing he won't be able to walk me down the aisle or dance with me. The other bs is so trivial to me after that happened.
pixietina
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Easiest is picking out vendors. The hardest part is paying them and dealing with my mother. She never makes me feel good about my wedding or even takes interest in it.
