Ex Boyfriend has invited to me a wedding as a stand in date..(his cancelled) he is IN the wedding and it is on this SUNDAY. he doesnt want to not bring a guest. He asked me today. Should I even consider asking FH (whom he is friends with)?? Or should I just say no. I would be an upset bride if one of my GM didnt bring a guest when he was sopposed to......
jjk1007
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would FH be okay with this? Sounds like an awkward situation...
mnd1202
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hey i would ask FH if hes ok with it and u and ur ex are on good terms, i dont see any harm
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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um i guess it depends on FHs relationship with him..u said its good so i guess u can ask....would u be ok if he went to a wedding with an ex that hes friends with? cause as much as im not really a jealous person id prob be upset if he went to a wedding with an ex...but its really up to your relatinship with him and him and FH
Kimbalina
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This guy I was invited by, we dated around 3 years,, and there was 6 months between him and FH,,, we are all friends, and the wedding that heis in is a mutual friend of Ex and I. (FH and I were not invited because I only talked to the guys who wedding it is way back 5 years ago)
chrispar
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If you want to go and you have a good relationship with your ex talk to FH and see how he feels about it. If you think it will cause problems then I say No way!!!
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i would say it all depends on how the relationship you all have together. if FH would be ok with it then heck go for it! ...that would never fly in our house...
dream426
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I agree with the girls.
jgl
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the question is.. do you want to go? is he a good enough friend now (since you broke up) that you would do that for him?
If yes then i would talk to FH about it
MrsD71208
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If you want to and there will be no hard feelings, go. If it were me, I'd say no....I don't want/need any ties to any ex's JMO
Kimbalina
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I talked to FH,,, he said GO!!! I was surprised, I dont know if the Ex 'needs' me to go or not still.. he was going to try a single girl!
But FH was very understanding, and he said I could scout out the weddings for ideas, and definate donts.
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I don't know, Kim! The fact that you are asking us makes me think you think it might not be okay.
...BUT...I could be WAY OFF...
In all honesty, I can't really see why it would be a problem. You and FH are getting married. You have a strong bond. You are all friends now.
I guess it depends...this is a tough one.
Sorry, I'm not much help.
Rayjenn317
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I say don't go...your opening up a huge door for drama.
katleigh3
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Posted by Kimbalina
I talked to FH,,, he said GO!!! I was surprised, I dont know if the Ex 'needs' me to go or not still.. he was going to try a single girl!
But FH was very understanding, and he said I could scout out the weddings for ideas, and definate donts.
AWESOME!!!! I'm going to a wedding tomorrow in NJ and I can't wait to scout out ideas...Have fun!!!!
Kimbalina
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I am glad that I talked to my FH,,, I just didnt want him to think more of it then it is,,, and he doesnt so that is good. But I think I am going to end up not going.. Ex, should be able to get someone else. I dont want to start any drama between us, we are all good friends
