Ex-Fiance

Cindiarella Posted: Mar 22, 2009 07:34 PM

Ex-Fiance

My fiance broke up with me about a month ago. He never gave me a reason. I could only think its because he wants to be single and check out what's out there and he stopped loving me. I don't know for sure.

We were together for a year and half. I love him so much. Our wedding was suppose to take place in May.

Everyone tells me I am better off, I deserve better. It all makes sense its the obvious answer but I love him so much and miss him terribly.

What could I do or say to get him back. I want him to remember the wonderful relationship we had.

RitasEngaged Posted: Mar 22, 2009 07:38 PM

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I am so sorry but to be honest I would want nothing to do with him he broke off your engagement I wouldn't fight for him you can do better

MnM182008 Posted: Mar 22, 2009 07:51 PM

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I am so sorry you are going through this. I am sure right now it seems like you want to be back with him. However, I think any man who walks out on you isn't worth chasing down. If a man makes a commitment to you to get married and leaves without an explanation he really isn't worth your time.

You should take some time for yourself, spend time with friends, do things that make you happy.

emc282rjm Posted: Mar 22, 2009 08:14 PM

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I agree. I know it might seem like the end of the world now, but you have to give it time. If it is meant to be, he will realize that. You don't want to have to 'convince' him to come back to you--if he doesn't want you, then you shouldn't want him!!

Lsorrent Posted: Mar 22, 2009 08:26 PM

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I must agree with the other girls though. I'm not willing to fight for a man's love. I shouldn't have to. If he wants to be with me, then he will. If he doesn't, then he's not worth me wasting my time.

FutureMrsGi Posted: Mar 22, 2009 08:57 PM

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Posted by Cindiarella
Everyone tells me I am better off, I deserve better.

There is a very, very good reason why the people who know and love you are saying this. Sometimes we can't see the truth right infront of us when we are blinded by emotions.

I wish you well

ladycapricorn Posted: Mar 22, 2009 09:03 PM

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Posted by MnM182008

I am so sorry you are going through this. I am sure right now it seems like you want to be back with him. However, I think any man who walks out on you isn't worth chasing down. If a man makes a commitment to you to get married and leaves without an explanation he really isn't worth your time.

You should take some time for yourself, spend time with friends, do things that make you happy.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

Spend a lot of time with the people that love you, sorry to hear about this

aseltzer Posted: Mar 22, 2009 09:35 PM

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It will make sense to you one day why this happened. I was engaged before and we broke it off. I am so grateful now for where I am and who I am with now. It wouldn't have worked for my ex and myself. You deserve better. Just heal and love yourself the best you can. We are here to support you as much as we can. Take care of yourself. I am sorry.