So 2 days ago I have a huge, heated falling out with my MOH....She stated that shes tired of walking on eggshells around me (this being after she lost all my hand-made bridal shower invites that were shipped from California just in time to be in the mail for my June 11th shower) Our arguing ended in her not being in my wedding party anymore....
Now today (mind you its only 2 days since our fight) she announces to all our mutual friends that she is getting married (mind you shes been 'engaged and i use this word loosely' to this guy who they have a 3 year old with for over 4 years now and had NO PLANS what so ever on having a wedding) Soo she wants to use my same bridesmaids as hers since shes now planning her 'wedding' and wants to get started and needs all her 'girls' to help....
Like really this is how you try and spite someone?? Grow up!! Vent over!!
rosatemp
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omg date twin i would frigging killllll her...omg what nerve!!! omg i would go off on her..when is her date?
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omg date twin i would frigging killllll her...omg what nerve!!! omg i would go off on her..when is her date?
You have no idea how disgusted I am by her.....I have no clue when shes doing it or the details because I didnt want to make it sounded like I cared since thats apparently what she wants.
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Sorry, I'm crashing over here, but what a biiitch! You definitely don't need that.
And I wonder if she'll visit LIW! Hmmm....
MrsTarricone2B
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What??? That's crazy!!!! She'll get what's coming to her, karma's a b*tch!
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What??? That's crazy!!!! She'll get what's coming to her, karma's a b*tch!
Her Karma is marrying a loser just to spite a friend....Weddings are a PITA to plan but a divorce is worse
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omg date twin i would frigging killllll her...omg what nerve!!! omg i would go off on her..when is her date?
You have no idea how disgusted I am by her.....I have no clue when shes doing it or the details because I didnt want to make it sounded like I cared since thats apparently what she wants.
wow i really am sorry...she is being a child...dont even let her get under your skin...in the long run she lost out not you and your bridesmaids were yours first and until your wedding is done they shouldnt make themeselves available to her...people suck
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Posted by MrsTarricone2B
What??? That's crazy!!!! She'll get what's coming to her, karma's a b*tch!
ITA
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Sorry you are going through this...Seems like she is just doing it for shock value as well as spite, that is never a good combo...she is cooking up her own disaster soup , let her be, in the end i'm sure you'll remain on top.
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What a b****h!!!! OMG that is is petty and childish. Like you said shes marrying a loser so the end shes one that is messin up her life, AH WELL!! You are marrying for the right reasons and your wedding will be 100 x better.
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Today must be Ex-MOH day because I got into it with my Ex-MOH as well! Unfortunately, people sometimes let egos and emotions take over everything. Her job as your MOH is to make things easier for you while planning your wedding. It's better you find out now rather than later her position on the whole situation. When she starts planning and start to understand how things really get then she will probably feel stupid about how she reacted! Karma is a .....
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Wow im sorry thats horrible!!! How did she lose all of the invitations??
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What a b****h!!!! OMG that is is petty and childish. Like you said shes marrying a loser so the end shes one that is messin up her life, AH WELL!! You are marrying for the right reasons and your wedding will be 100 x better.
this!!! she'll prob realize days/weeks in that this is really stressful and call off the wedding don't let her get to you! i'm sorry
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Wow im sorry thats horrible!!! How did she lose all of the invitations??
She lives with her parents and their all Hoarders...She lost them within 24 hours of me giving them to her...she has no clue where they went. She found the envelopes though she says...
jettahot
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WOW!!!
IrishAli
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YIKES biatch. You have every reason to be POd
Kelli218
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I have to tell you... I don't have an EX-MOH... but I would like to... I have been planning my wedding since January 2010 and mine has yet to do ANYTHING and my wedding is 2 months away!!! She hasn't even called me ONCE to ask if I need help!!!
I have been helping my mother plan my own shower!!! People can be SO inconsiderate!!!!
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Wow super petty and annoying!! Some people...I swear..!!!!
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I'm so sorry - sometimes i don't understand people and where they get their thinking.
It's probably better she is no longer in your wedding as it sounds like she'd try to compete with your wedding.
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I know you're mad at her, but how far back does the friendship go? Is it worth saving? Did she apologize and offer to pay for the invitations you had to order again?