Exes at a Wedding

On the post about awkward speeches one bride mentioned an ex being at the wedding... How do you ladies feel about this?

I think I would flip a sh*t! lol

one of the groomsmen is dating FH's ex ... we told him he can't bring her.

I wouldn't mind unless it was one ex in particular. I don't like her because she was still sending FH love letters after we started dating. Otherwise, one of them was my really good friend when we were kids, I wouldn't mind her going but FH and his family don't like her anymore!

If FH was friends with one of his exes or if one of his friends was dating one of his exes I don't think I would have a problem with them being there. However, I'm happy that I'm not in that type of situation.

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

one of the groomsmen is dating FH's ex ... we told him he can't bring her.

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EXCELLENT! good for you!

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Posted by jilliibabii

I wouldn't mind unless it was one ex in particular. I don't like her because she was still sending FH love letters after we started dating.

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beeeeeeeeetch... hope she knows youre getting married

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

one of the groomsmen is dating FH's ex ... we told him he can't bring her.

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That's great!

This is a sore, sore topic for me. FH was dead set on inviting one of his exes (mind you, this was a girl who has bi-polar and the reason why they broke up was because she kept cutting herself!). FH did not care that I said I did not want her there, he was planning on inviting one of her friends, so he felt he had to invite her. Thankfully, FH and the ex and the friend had a falling out, and I won't be seeing either at the wedding.

hell to the naw!
I would not be having anyone's ex's at the wedding.
I don't need the added drama. I bring my own!

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill

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Posted by jilliibabii

I wouldn't mind unless it was one ex in particular. I don't like her because she was still sending FH love letters after we started dating.

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beeeeeeeeetch... hope she knows youre getting married

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Oh she knows. One of her spies is trying to mack it to a GM.

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Posted by saralee1978

This is a sore, sore topic for me. FH was dead set on inviting one of his exes (mind you, this was a girl who has bi-polar and the reason why they broke up was because she kept cutting herself!). FH did not care that I said I did not want her there, he was planning on inviting one of her friends, so he felt he had to invite her. Thankfully, FH and the ex and the friend had a falling out, and I won't be seeing either at the wedding.

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Oh my gosh THANK GOODNESS i literally felt your anxiety as i was reading this... im sorry you even had to deal with it but i'm happy it worked out in the end mwahaha

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill

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Posted by jilliibabii

I wouldn't mind unless it was one ex in particular. I don't like her because she was still sending FH love letters after we started dating.

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beeeeeeeeetch... hope she knows youre getting married

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Oh she knows. One of her spies is trying to mack it to a GM.

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oh man... sometimes girls can be so silly... spies... lol

That is a touchy subject...We're probably going to have a couple of mine at our wedding but we are both still friends with them and they were pretty casual relationships back in high school. I would feel funny having any of our serious exes there.

On a related subject...have you thought about what to do for seating guests that are exes? I have a few who were in the the same group of friends, which is why they started dating. Now theyve broken up and I still have to invite them both, and since they are friends with the same people I'm not sure if/how I should split them up. I know there's still tons of time to think about it, but it stresses me out a bit everytime I start thinking about seating

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsONeill

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Posted by saralee1978

This is a sore, sore topic for me. FH was dead set on inviting one of his exes (mind you, this was a girl who has bi-polar and the reason why they broke up was because she kept cutting herself!). FH did not care that I said I did not want her there, he was planning on inviting one of her friends, so he felt he had to invite her. Thankfully, FH and the ex and the friend had a falling out, and I won't be seeing either at the wedding.

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Oh my gosh THANK GOODNESS i literally felt your anxiety as i was reading this... im sorry you even had to deal with it but i'm happy it worked out in the end mwahaha

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Thank you....it was definitely a rough perioud of a few weeks.....my mother had told me to just casually 'lose' those invitations.

FH has another 'ex' (not sure if four dates counts as an ex), who continued to call him constantly when we started dating - he started dating me right after he stopped seeing her. We were afraid a mutual friend of ours would want to bring her as a date, but thankfully mutual friend is dating someone else.

I WOULDN'T HAVE CARED ON BIT !!!

BUT IF I TOLD DH I WANTED TO INVITE AN EX
I WOULD NOT BE POSTING ANY WEDDING DAY PICS

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

My MOH is my FH's ex. They dated in high school. Long story so yes we will have an ex there.

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As long as you're okay with it then who cares... im more worried about the crazies that still talk to my FH showing up as a date

In the case where an ex is dating a groomsman I would think it would be ok to invite her....

I wouldnt mind though...one of DH's exes was at our reception with her boyfriend, it was the first time I met her (shes from OOT) and I loved her. I think if you can tell they are over the past and each other then it shouldnt be an issue. But if the ex is a looney toon then beotch does NOT need to be there lol.