Ok is it just me or did you ladies experience similar situations
Since the engagement I have had a few of my exs try to win me over and I even had one tell me Im only getting married so I can 'look' happy (whatever that means)
I guess they saying is true: Nobody wants you until someones got you (It goes smthing like that)
jlt2010
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my ex called me about a month after the engagement to congratulate me! i'm still not sure how he found out.
AdriandSteve
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My ex stopped talking to me for a year when i got engaged (which was good).
He's recently engaged and out right told me, 'i wish things were different'. I pretended i didn't understand and said, 'what.. about the age difference? (he's 28 she's 41)' He said, '::sigh:; no Adriana.... you know what i mean but nevermind.'
grrulz
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my ex knows but he congratulated me that's about it i could care less what he thinks lol we only lasted 10 months anyway
JoanneAndJustin
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Ex Number One: Out in OH, engaged since like, 2003... still not married....... Loser
Ex Number Two: Married, with kids, and I love him to death. We're great friends.
Ex Number Three: I have no idea where he disappeared to, so I doubt he knows.
Ex Number Four: Is wicked jealous, but totally knows better than to say/try anything.
kimmy02
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ha funny you bring this up.. my ex just texted me out of no where 'how are you.. thinking of you...call me and we can catch up... ' im assuming he doesnt know that im engaged, he lives in florida and 2 yrs i moved back to NY after breaking it off with him....
after speaking to my FH i am actually thinking about writing him and letting him know im engaged... im kinda thinking i should tell him so he knows im very happy. or of course leave it alone all together.. havent decided yet... weird though.
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There were 2 other serious relationships I was in and I haven't talked to either in years. The last time I spoke to the first one, he told me that he still loved me and he always would but he wished me the best. He was a drug addict and alcoholic, so you can see why that didn't work out. As for the second guy, I dated him for a few years and wound up leaving him for FH (they were good friends) and although he knows we're engaged, I don't think he'll be congratulating us any time soon...
MrsMartiniToBe
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Well, the good thing is that neither of them can get in touch with me, haha because I don't have the same number and they can't search me out on FB...lol.
Anyway, my first ex is friendly with my best friend and she told him...he said that he wished me all the best. Blah blah...lol.
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not really an 'ex' but something weird like that.. we're still friendlyish(ISH) and i texted him in the mass text when we got engaged and he wrote back '9'
and then wrote on FH's facebook wall 'At least you still have the Yankees'
'9' I don't get it??? what does 9 mean?
Not a clue; I was just as confused
kimmaymb20
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no thank the lord!
shortiroc127
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FH's ex likes to cause drama. When she found out we were engaged...all of a sudden she was 'suddenly engaged as well.' She also likes to randomly FB message FH and tell him he's stupid for wasting money on a wedding.
OMG...same here! FH and I were dating for over 8 years when we got engaged (last June). FH's baby mamma was not seeing anyone at the time (or for a long time before that). About a month later she has a serious boyfriend. A month after that she introduced him to FH's daughter. Then after dating for less than 6 months... she's getting married! I can't quite say engaged because from what I understand, they 'just decided' they were getting married. He didn't really ask her. And getting married in like 4 months. She just got married this past weekend. I said either she's knocked up or she's jealous that you'd be getting married before her.
