Ok is it just me or did you ladies experience similar situations
Since the engagement I have had a few of my exs try to win me over and I even had one tell me Im only getting married so I can 'look' happy (whatever that means)
I guess they saying is true: Nobody wants you until someones got you (It goes smthing like that)
Lsorrent
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Well I haven't seen or heard from my ex before FH pretty much since about a year after we broke up.......and I'd like to keep it that way.
But my ex before that every once in a while messages me on Facebook. And it's weird b/c he's always asking about the wedding plans.....I don't think he ever really got over everything, but it was like 13 years ago!
Nah my one ex that I was serious about has wished me luck with everything - the others I haven't heard from or seen in years...
soontobecruz
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Not really I have had comments from non-ex's but guy friends like, they always had a thing for me, or stuff like that but I havn't seen or heard from any ex's for like a year.
Becca2010
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I haven't really had any 'Ex' moments, but the night of my engagement, I got a text from one of FH's close friends who happens to be my friend as well saying, 'Is it too late to confess my love for you?'
Now, ordinarily, this is like whoa drama! But he's a weird funny guy and I doubt he meant it, but it definitely made me smile LOL
Soon2bShea
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FH's ex likes to cause drama. When she found out we were engaged...all of a sudden she was 'suddenly engaged as well.' She also likes to randomly FB message FH and tell him he's stupid for wasting money on a wedding.
MikesBride2B
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I have the opposite haha...my ex and I were friends on FB and I really wanted to work towards mending our relationship and maybe getting to be the friends that we were.
Then I posted that I was engaged and he defriended me
Sour grapes, I guess...
regy_k
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when my status changed on FB to engaged (b/c FH made me change it ) an ex congratulated me and wished me luck and happiness. now usually that's a nice gesture, but knowing him it's comment to make himself heard and known. he is that kinda guy that only shows interest when someone else is interested well GL to him too
latinaj
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how about i saw my ex who i know is deeply in love w/me at our apt building...
turns out his friends are our new neighbors..
WEIRD!!! anyway i was w/FH so I introduced them...the nxt day he emailed me at work and asked me when the wedding was.
JAAMS
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not really an 'ex' but something weird like that.. we're still friendlyish(ISH) and i texted him in the mass text when we got engaged and he wrote back '9'
and then wrote on FH's facebook wall 'At least you still have the Yankees'
KatieG2010
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I never had an ex but a lot of guys were disappointed when they heard of the engagement.... i only have eyes for fh
soontobecruz
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Posted by JAAMS
not really an 'ex' but something weird like that.. we're still friendlyish(ISH) and i texted him in the mass text when we got engaged and he wrote back '9'
and then wrote on FH's facebook wall 'At least you still have the Yankees'
'9' I don't get it??? what does 9 mean?
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i had an ex call me and congratulate me. hes a wonderful guy (he was just overly obnoxious.. i tell him all the time lol)and wishes me nothing but the best. theres only 1 ex that was liek 83901 yrs ago that keeps friend req me and i keep denying. i hate him.. but other than that i havent had any problems
mrsdraskin2009
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No, I haven't had any issues because I do NOT keep in touch with my exes. They're my exes for a reason, and I never maintained a freindship with them. I am actually FB friends with one ex but we don't even communicate.
asg450
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I haven't seen or heard from any of my ex's in years and I'm very grateful about that. It's not like any of them could make me change my mind about FH anyway.
kris_gets_hitched
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I haven't remained friends/friendly with any of my ex's, nor have I ever run into any of them. I do wish that they all are able to find the happiness I have with FH though. No hard feelings here, sometimes things just don't work out.
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My ex before FH is insane he has not only tried to get me back by changing who he is but now he is trying to date all of my bm's. He told my best friend that he wanted to take her out to dinner. Its kinda scary!!!!!!
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I occassionaly use to talk to my ex fiance. We didn't have a blow out as a break up but we were just not right for each other. Well he messaged me after i got engaged and I told him and he got pissed said I must have felt good by saying that to him and that I was trying to piss him off and I haven't heard from him since. aw well...
Relish21
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I've gotten half serious half joking offers from ex's like I'll be your last fling!! Garbage!!! All of it!
01ELLIE
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well i used to be friends with my 'ex'...then when he got into a serious relationship and had a baby with his girl....she banned him from getting in touch with me!! LOL
