Re: Extremely distressed.
Posted by amarra121
Hey everyone,
I am hoping someone can shed some light on my situation. My FH mother always constantly makes comments about what we plan to do for our wedding. At first after we became engaged she would mention things like ' you should go to city hall and get married' and I just would shrugg it off. But tonight we needed addresses to send out an engagement announcements to FH side of the family and she mumbled something that I didn't catch but my FH caught on to it. Needless to say they had words and now I feel extremely uncomfortable with her. She's making it seem like were wasting time and money which makes no sense being that were paying for this wedding ourselves. I feel like this game is getting old and I could really use some advice.![]()
im going threw something like that with my fmil. i tell my fh what bothers me and he tells me try tolet it not bother u. but it does. so my advice to u is maybe call everyone and send an email out to them for there addresses. or if she gives u the addresses ten don't bother with telling her nothing. my fmil was acroos the strett from my house last week in pathmark and i called her and ask her to come over to see my dress and she told me no. it bothered me but what can i do. i know not to invite her over nomore and hse will see everything the day of my wedding.my fh tells me not to let her get to u. so im telling u the samething, i know its hard but its ur special day so u do what u have to do and leave her out of things.
