Family Drama !!!!

Family Drama !!!!

I was talking to my fiancés brother’s girlfriend and I talk her about our plans for the bridal party and that my fiancé brother will be his BM (he doesn’t know yet, we suppose to go for a diner and talk about that) and that my sis will be mine MOH. I also did tell her that there is some more family coming from Poland for our wedding and his wedding (they are getting married 2 weeks after us). I thought that everything was fine…. after 6 o’clock, my fiancé called me and told me that he had a huge fight with his brother about what I said… (he is not mad at me) So his brother said that he will not be his BM, because nobody ask him, and that he promised his friend to be one and he doesn’t have thousand of dollars to waste to be a BM on two weddings…. anyway he said that he will not walk with some stupid girl (my sis) on the wedding and his girlfriend-fiancée will not walk with some stranger…. further he said that he doesn’t not have space in his wedding to fit more family because his friends are more important to him, and he doesn’t care and we should back off and find another BM….huge fight…. We don’t have any other family here….for my fiancé its only his parents and his brother here and for me same thing…we thought that it would be very appropriate to have him as BM, because he is the closes one to him here…. So now I’m very upset and I don’t know what to do…. how to react to that…. I feel that if he will agree all of the sudden, then now I don’t want him to feel sorry for us and just do it…they invited us to be in the bridal party, and I feel that I should refused that also….WHAT Should I do about it…. I feel that they are trying to ruin our day now…..

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omg im so sorry!!!! I really don't even know what to say, maybe he was just upset because you had told his gf before him? I dont even know, I'm just trying to find SOMETHING that would make someone react that way

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i have no idea why he did reacted this way....it makes me so sad because they are brothers...

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i believe that uts his girlfriend that is controling him, he doenst like us much and his family as well...

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Sometimes family is a huge let down, just try to movr forward with those that are truly happy for you.

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thanks you right, i was actually trying to resolve the problem now, and his gf told me that she doenst give u fXXX anymore, and we dont need to be in her bridal party, she didnt even apologise for making a huge fight..... its seems that it was her plan all along....

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I think you need to find out exactly what his girlfriend/ fiancee told him. It sounds like she added some salt and pepper to the pot cause I don't understand why he is reacting this way.