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Family Problem

MLHtobe424 Posted:

Family Problem

I need to VENT! So I am having a destination wedding on Marco Island,FL in April. We are having a wedding weekend that includes golf. So here's the problem, my cousin, who I believe is *****'s child, is an *******! His son is our ring bearer. (Little background info- my parents have had issues with his parents (my dads brother) and when my uncle died, we reconciled because my Aunt wanted to be a family again. My cousin has always wanted us in his life, especially my dad). So anyways, my dad and cousin are playing golf the day of the rehearsal run through and dinner. Now I have told my cousin several times we are doing a rehearsal run through and dinner because THATS WHAT USUALLY HAPPENS THE DAY BEFORE THE WEDDING! So last night I get an email, 'is there anywhere we need to go or do after golf because my wife wants to visit her grandma in Boca. Ok, several points here- 1. Boca is about 2-2 1\2 hours away (one way) 2. I asked whoever was playing golf on thursday to be done by 2, because the rehearsal run through is at 330. (Its about 20 minutes from our hotel). Did I ask this for my health?!? Clearly there is something going on if I asked you to be done by 2!!!

So as you can tell, I'm fuming over this, I don't want his son in my bridal party anymore! My parents and I are sitting down tonight and sending them a email regarding this matter!

Sorry girls, just reallly needed to vent! Haha. What do you think?
gina409 Posted:

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im so sorry..people just shock me sometimes..they r down there for ur wedding and if they wanted to do family things they shouuld have made it so it not to interfere with the wedding...i think u should email them if u really want him at the rehersal say he needs to be there..and then see what he says..if he blows u off then decide if u still want the kid in the bp..hope it all works out for u
Celeste617 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

im so sorry..people just shock me sometimes..they r down there for ur wedding and if they wanted to do family things they shouuld have made it so it not to interfere with the wedding...i think u should email them if u really want him at the rehersal say he needs to be there..and then see what he says..if he blows u off then decide if u still want the kid in the bp..hope it all works out for u



ITA. Say, YES, there is something going on after golf. This is not an excursion just to get away - it's a wedding for goodness sake
MLHtobe424 Posted:

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Yes, this is what gets me, he is flying in the day before the rehearsal dinner on wednesday, so there is your extra day! OMG I hate him! I hate him! This man only thinks of himself!

gina409 Posted:

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words of wisdom to make u giggle...

some people r like slinkys..no real use but make u smile when they fall down stairs..


j/k girls just to make her smile
chicky724 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

words of wisdom to make u giggle...

some people r like slinkys..no real use but make u smile when they fall down stairs..


j/k girls just to make her smile



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