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Family Vent (SECOND UPDATE)

2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

Family Vent (SECOND UPDATE)

I usually don't get personal on here because I don't trust things on the internet. But this is too good to keep to myself and I don't give a sh!t who sees it.

MOST but not ALL of FH's family is not the nicest group of people. They have treated my FH like crap and continuously talk bad about me. I have been called white trash, gold digger, and countless other things. Let me say I have been dating FH for 6 years. Many of those years he was going through a bitter divorce (his ex had an affair for a long time) and I stayed because I love him regardless of all the BS that came along with it. You would think his family would be happy that he is so happy. NOT...they think I am going to take him for all his money. I work and make very good money & I own my house (FH will be moving in with me). IDIOTS. They should be happy he found an intelligent woman that loves him unconditionly (proven bec I put up with his family). The funny part is that they claim to be religious people but yet all they do is judge. They will have their time to be judged and hopefully it's too late and they end up being condemned to HELL!!!! Can you tell I am angry? Well FH's aunt rsvpd to my shower for like 8 people and they are all NOT coming. A$$es didn't even have the decency to pick up the phone and call for themselves. Cowards. She told my sister that there are family problems. GO F your self you F&*^#ing IDIOTS.

Wow. That felt good. I keep things in because I don't want to upset my FH bec he has enough stress, Thanks ladies for listening.


UPDATE: FH's sister in law called and said she can't make it. Says she is going down south

SECOND UPDATE: FH's stepmother rsvpd NO because of family problems!!! SHe had the nerve to say all FH has to do is apologize. She called the second number which was my mom's number. And my beautiful amazing mom, told her that it was very sad and unfortunate that she is chosing not to come and that this will break FH's heart. She also told her that she loves him very much and that he and I are very much in love and are perfect for one another. God I love my mom.
wifetobe Posted:

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I hope it gets better for you!!!!!
bluekat16 Posted:

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I'm glad you got it off your chect! I'm sorry that your fH's family doesn't see how lucky he is.
Kerin2804 Posted:

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SO sorry you have to deal with unhappy people. I truly believe that when people are bitter as you described, that they are just unhappy with themselves. They say misery loves company - let them all stay togeether. Remember the day isd about you & fh - enjoy your new life together as Mr. & Mrs.
Bride908 Posted:

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Im sorry your FH's family is naive. Dont worry about the ones who cant see through their own opinions. You will be surrounded by people who really care about you that day.
2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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Thanks ladies. I really don't care what they say about me because I don't care about them. I just feel really bad for my FH. Regardless of everything it's still family. Atleast he is marrying into a great family.
Ray8183 Posted:

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Theresa, keep smiling because that will drive them crazy. You will have a beautiful day with your best friend. Don't let them bring you down.
2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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Posted by Ray8183

Theresa, keep smiling because that will drive them crazy. You will have a beautiful day with your best friend. Don't let them bring you down.



Thank you so much. I won't let anyone except those I love ever see me down. WOn't give them the satisfcation. Just have to get FH not to show anything.
JodyLC Posted:

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You I know how you feel or rather my FH does, he is going through the same kind of BS only with my family. I have found that when it comes down to weddings it really brings out who people are whether it be family or friends. At least your FH knows how lucky he is to have you!
JodyLC Posted:

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UPDATE: FH's sister in law called and said she can't make it. Says she is going down south


Oh I am SURE she is going down South.... OOOps did i say that?
davenjess Posted:

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GOOD FOR YOU for standing by your FH. You don't need his family and just wait until you have your own little family (with you, fh & babies) - you can show them how you properly treat people!

I have to admit - i have the same issue with Dave's family. His mom is crazy, his sister is kinda a flake...and because his mom is nutty - NO ONE from their family came to our wedding.. It only hurt/upset me because i could see it bothering Dave...that's the part that made me ANGRY.

Be proud of the strong woman you are and don't let those losers make you think anything less of you!!!
Valerie-Joe Posted:

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Sorry that they are so... well I'm sure you can put the best adjective in there. Now you'll have your OWN family and hopefully not care as much how they feel. Glad you could get it off your chest, I totally understand not wanting to put FH in the middle and make him more stressed. It must be hard for him.
GinaZ Posted:

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They sound very rude! Sorry u are dealing with them!!!
LeeLee111 Posted:

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Oh I'm so sorry, I'm dealing with a similar in-law situation and I could kill her. Hang in there, you're marrying the man of your dreams and thats all that matters.
Gigi08 Posted:

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I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that. Maybe it's better off they are not there...maybe it will be less stressful and more enjoyable without them! I too agree that misery loves company!

2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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Thanks everyone for your well wishes. I really appreciate it. Today keeps getting worse by the minute. I think I am coming close to exploding.

MikeandJess Posted:

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I'm so sorry you have to deal with them I know how you feel. I sometimes wish FH was an orphan so I don't have to deal with his family.
TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

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I am really sorry you are going through this. Do you know all about your shower? I am just wondering if it would be less stressful for you not to get these updates about who is coming and who isn't .... I know you would find out the day of, but maybe you shouldn't know now?
2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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Yes I know when my shower is. Now I feel bad for my mom bec she isn't going to meet the minimum.
2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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See update

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