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fear of 'the girls' coming out at the wedding (TMI, maybe?)

MikeandJess Posted:

fear of 'the girls' coming out at the wedding (TMI, maybe?)

I'm nervous of the girls exposing themselves for all to see at the wedding! I'm going braless because the girls are pretty small but I fear that while I'm dancing I'll lift my arm a funny way and out come the girls This happened to me once at a wedding and I think I'm traumatized. Tell me it's going to be ok.
lucky1010 Posted:

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you will be fine!!! Ask your seamstress if she can add the rubber backing to the tube top of your dress JUST in case. It will help it from not slipping down

agraydc Posted:

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what style dress do u have???
nevermind i just checked ur album, gorgeous dress!!!!

i think you will be fine, i am not wearing a bra either, but if you are really worried i would buy some double sided fashion tape to keep those girls in place
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by agraydc

what style dress do u have???
nevermind i just checked ur album, gorgeous dress!!!!

i think you will be fine, i am not wearing a bra either, but if you are really worried i would buy some double sided fashion tape to keep those girls in place



thanks! I actually asked the seamstress about the double sided take and she didn't recommend it. She said because the dress is heavy it won't really hold the dress in place
AutumnWedd Posted:

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You could try those sticky cup bras that come in beige...that way at least if they pop out, they wont see the girls, they will see your beige sticky cup bra I bought these because I haven't decided what I'm doing with my strapless dress yet (maybe adding straps ...hehe)
TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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I am sure you will be fine, but thats so funny you mention that because tonight i was talking to SIL and she mentioned how she saw my girls when i asked her to help me go to the bathroom

MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by AutumnWedd

You could try those sticky cup bras that come in beige...that way at least if they pop out, they wont see the girls, they will see your beige sticky cup bra I bought these because I haven't decided what I'm doing with my strapless dress yet (maybe adding straps ...hehe)



thanks I did buy something like that just in case!
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

I am sure you will be fine, but thats so funny you mention that because tonight i was talking to SIL and she mentioned how she saw my girls when i asked her to help me go to the bathroom



lol that is funny. I fear going to the bathroom the day of the wedding
cherish83 Posted:

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I'm pretty small there too so I dont plan on wearing a bra either. Maybe ask your seamstress if she can put something in there to keep them in place if you're worried

stephanienyc2002 Posted:

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my chicken culets maybe
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by cherish83

I'm pretty small there too so I dont plan on wearing a bra either. Maybe ask your seamstress if she can put something in there to keep them in place if you're worried



she sewed in pads but I still felt like the top was a little loose. I did ask her about it and she said there is a certain type of poise a bride must have when wearing a strapless dress. I don't know if I have this poise she talks about
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess


Posted by cherish83

I'm pretty small there too so I dont plan on wearing a bra either. Maybe ask your seamstress if she can put something in there to keep them in place if you're worried



she sewed in pads but I still felt like the top was a little loose. I did ask her about it and she said there is a certain type of poise a bride must have when wearing a strapless dress. I don't know if I have this poise she talks about



Eeek! I have no poise what-so-ever either
KiTTeN0819 Posted:

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Posted by cherish83


Posted by MikeandJess


Posted by cherish83

I'm pretty small there too so I dont plan on wearing a bra either. Maybe ask your seamstress if she can put something in there to keep them in place if you're worried



she sewed in pads but I still felt like the top was a little loose. I did ask her about it and she said there is a certain type of poise a bride must have when wearing a strapless dress. I don't know if I have this poise she talks about



Eeek! I have no poise what-so-ever either



Oh dear im screwed!!

Im so buying those beige sticky nipple tape thingys.
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by KiTTeN0819


Posted by cherish83


Posted by MikeandJess


Posted by cherish83

I'm pretty small there too so I dont plan on wearing a bra either. Maybe ask your seamstress if she can put something in there to keep them in place if you're worried



she sewed in pads but I still felt like the top was a little loose. I did ask her about it and she said there is a certain type of poise a bride must have when wearing a strapless dress. I don't know if I have this poise she talks about



Eeek! I have no poise what-so-ever either



Oh dear im screwed!!

Im so buying those beige sticky nipple tape thingys.



That sounds like a plan!!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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You will be fine! trust me! My dress could have been taken in more in the bust (in fact I wish I would had said something so it would have been) I thought mine would pop out at some point too..but regardless I was fine, dancing and all

MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

You will be fine! trust me! My dress could have been taken in more in the bust (in fact I wish I would had said something so it would have been) I thought mine would pop out at some point too..but regardless I was fine, dancing and all



thanks kristen, that was inspirational!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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im not worried about the popping out, because i have a very small chest BUT i am worried about being able to see down the dress and see some nipple action if there is a space between your skin and the dress and someone is above you, they can see right in! does anyone know what im talking about?
melissatam2008 Posted:

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dont stress about it..u gonna b k..=)

MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

im not worried about the popping out, because i have a very small chest BUT i am worried about being able to see down the dress and see some nipple action if there is a space between your skin and the dress and someone is above you, they can see right in! does anyone know what im talking about?



Yes! I'm nervous about this too. I have a lot of booby issues
snowcutie82 Posted:

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it seems like the best bet might be those sticky bra things....theyre flat/thin and at least if there are any mishaps they will cover 'the girls' so you wont be completely exposed.

and that sort of resolve the ppl being able to see down your dress issue as well....cuz if they are able to...at least theyre seeing the nude sticky things and not anything else.

DEFINATELY let us know how it goes...and if u end up using them!!!!

im sure ull be fine! but its still good to be prepared and think ahead

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