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Feel like I'm so behind

squeekietoy Posted:

Feel like I'm so behind

I'm getting married on January 3rd and I feel like I've gotten nothing accomplished. I've booked my hall and my photographer and nothing else. I mean, I've looked at florists and DJ's and I already bought my wedding dress and I have my bridesmaid dresses picked out, but, nothing else is really done. Anyone else feel really overwhelmed and they have a short period of time to get everything done? Eek!
Mrs B to Be Posted:

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make a list....and plan to accomplish something each month.....it'll take away the feeling of being overwhelmed....and keep you on track!

my life revolved around the wedding calendar now!
Jsquared279 Posted:

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I think you are doing great! That is a lot checked off your list. I am getting married a month after you on 2/7/09. I have a Hall, a DJ and a florist. I know what dress I want but I haven't ordered it yet and my BM's are going to look at dresses over Easter and pick one. I think you are on the right track. I mean you still have a lot of time. I think it's going to work out just fine! Let me know if you need anything!

aliska21 Posted:

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Posted by squeekietoy

I'm getting married on January 3rd and I feel like I've gotten nothing accomplished. I've booked my hall and my photographer and nothing else. I mean, I've looked at florists and DJ's and I already bought my wedding dress and I have my bridesmaid dresses picked out, but, nothing else is really done. Anyone else feel really overwhelmed and they have a short period of time to get everything done? Eek!



I THINK YOU GOT MANY THINGS ACCOMPLISHED!
I JUST HAVE MY RH AND DJ RIGHT NOW..I FOUND THE DRESS AND I NEED TO ORDER IT!

GOOD LUCK WITH PLANNING!
FalNBill Posted:

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Take a deep breathe.... dont feel behind... your doing things at your own pace... you have alot done. just enjoy this time!

flairforfashion Posted:

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Hey don't feel bad bad! You got quite a few down. At least you have some planning ahead of you! I have all my stuff booked and feel like I have no more planning to do.

squeekietoy Posted:

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Posted by flairforfashion

Hey don't feel bad bad! You got quite a few down. At least you have some planning ahead of you! I have all my stuff booked and feel like I have no more planning to do.



HAHA. I would rather have no planning to do. Atleast I might be able to sleep at night. Ugh.
Kristina2009 Posted:

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That sounds like a lot to be. Many people have short engagement and it's fine. My sister did everything in about 10 months and had an incredible wedding. Photos, limos, bridesmaid were all done like 6 months before. Many people on here plan so early so I think we all get a bit skewed. Don't stress _ it sopund liek you git a chunk of stuff done!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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Dont stress yourself out. Most of us are just crazy early with everything!

beram63 Posted:

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lots of brides plan a wedding inside of one calendar year, and you're already done w/ a lot of the big stuff. take a deep breath, check out the timeline they give you on here and just handle one thing at a time.

enjoy this time
Im a Pepper Posted:

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you'll get everything done. it's easy to feel overwhelmed - especially on this site, where you get the feeling that everything had to be done yesterday, no matter how far away the wedding is. GL!!

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Hey, just think, tehre are people who get engaged 6 months before their wedding!

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted:

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Posted by squeekietoy

I'm getting married on January 3rd and I feel like I've gotten nothing accomplished. I've booked my hall and my photographer and nothing else. I mean, I've looked at florists and DJ's and I already bought my wedding dress and I have my bridesmaid dresses picked out, but, nothing else is really done. Anyone else feel really overwhelmed and they have a short period of time to get everything done? Eek!




I have NOTHING booked, except the church...I know i should get the ball rolling but Im being soo lazy!!
FutureMrsLehmann Posted:

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eh i've got nothing but the RH done. I don't see the point in rushing, I want to enjoy planning, not stress about it!

JnA823 Posted:

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You are way ahead of me. I've looked at 4 RH's and love 2 of them. I want to look at a maybe 3 more before making a decision. Depending on which RH I go with I may change my date. I haven't looked at anything else.

INNbride4409 Posted:

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I agre enjoy the planning..you have a lot done!

WinterGrl09 Posted:

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I actually think you're ahead of the game. A lot of brides don't book until 6 months before!

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