Feeling a little down....VENT

LousBride09 Posted: May 21, 2009 01:57 PM

Feeling a little down....VENT

I just need to vent a little...like I have a pretty decent amount of friends and I know I'm really lucky for that but I feel like lately everyone is too busy for me. I feel like I really reach out to all my friends and try to make plans and keep in touch through email/phone calls. I totally understand that people have busy lives and everything but its frustrating because I feel like sometimes if I dont initiate plans we would never hang out. It's not everyone but a select few that I feel like I'm always asking them to hang out instead of the reverse. Does anyone else feel like that? Like for example I have this one friend who is not in my main group of friends that has cancelled on me that last 3 times we tried to make plans and I think I hit the last straw- so I told her to get in touch with me when she's free. Anyway- sorry I dont mean to complain...I know it's not life or death and life will go on...I'm just a little down lately. Thanks for listening.

9509Bride Posted: May 21, 2009 02:00 PM

Re: Feeling a little down....VENT

no worries that's what the boards are for. we all get that way sometimes. if she really wants to hang out she'll make the effort, otherwise her loss dont stress over it. These days everyone has a lot on their plates so I would not take it personally.

LousBride09 Posted: May 21, 2009 02:07 PM

Re: Feeling a little down....VENT

Posted by 9509Bride

no worries that's what the boards are for. we all get that way sometimes. if she really wants to hang out she'll make the effort, otherwise her loss dont stress over it. These days everyone has a lot on their plates so I would not take it personally.

Thanks for your reply. Yea I will definitely not take it personally and just need to realize that people are busy. I feel like I tried to hang out a few times...so now she can get in touch with me if she wants to.