Feeling BLAH for NO reason!!!

I don't knoe why, but the past 2 weeks I have been feeling BLAH, lonely and depressed. Not sure why. FH workds night and I work days, has been this way for about 2 years, so I am used to it. He's off Sun/Mon, therefore we only get Sun and Mon eves together. Well, weekend before last, we spent Sun @ my MOH's for a BBQ, then Mon he had plans w/ a friend. This past weekend we had a BBQ at my house on Sun, but we barely spent any time together. I took of yesterday to spend some time with him, which we did...spent the whole day together in his A/C'd basement watching movies.

But now, I know I won't see him until Sun again, and it stinks! I am SO lonely and depressed, I wanna cry!!!

I am SO f'ing pathetic! There are PLENTY of things I could be doing (wedding and non-wedding), but have NO desire to do!!

Anyone ever felt like this? Oh, and I am not PMSing... How do I kick this feeling?!?!!?

Thanks for listenting!!!

-Jill

Chat with all of us and you will kick that feeling!!!
Curl up in bed with a glass of wine and light some candles and just relax, take time to be alone chill..I love doing that!

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Posted by CalJoe0124

Chat with all of us and you will kick that feeling!!!
Curl up in bed with a glass of wine and light some candles and just relax, take time to be alone chill..I love doing that!

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Thank you!!! I know, sometimes I WISH for time alone (my brother & I are roommates), but now that I have it, I feel 'lost'!

Thanks again!!

Aww Jill!
I know that feeling...me and FH ssee each other every night, but if I don't see him for a few nights, I just feel restless!!
I hate that feeling!! Let's see you can go on LIW
, watch tv, go get some Mama's Ices , etc. try to keep yourself busy....
You can always take a drive over to my casa!!!

Jeanine

What does SPIKE'S do?

There is always a girl's best friend, NOT diamonds

Ben and Jerry's!!!!!

Awwh, feel better. We all get down from time to time and there doesn't have to be a specific reason. Take a nice walk down by the water, get out and enjoy the summer sun.

Aw Jill! I was wondering why I hadn't 'senn' you...sorry you're down sweetie!

I think it's normal. In my planning phase I went through every kind of emotion imaginable.

Definitely reach out to friends, make plans to go out (movies, ice cream, coffee) and try to stay busy.

You and FH will soon enough be spending a lot of time together...an eternity's worth ...so hang in there...you're less than a year away!

And I'm here if you need someone!

BTW - how was the BBQ? Any pics?

Thank you all!!

Jeanine--'Spikes' is a cop in Qns! Hmmm, Mama's sounds good about now!! Got your FM earlier, sorry I didn't respond...work was CRAZY today! Sorry you guys couldn't make it!

Sasha--BBQ was good. No pics though it was SO flipping hot!! I am super sensitive in the heat, I had a bad case of heat exhaustion (spent 6 hrs in ER), so I have to watch myself...I didn't...took a nap half way thru the BBQ! I felt like an old lady!! Overall, it was a good time. Thanks for asking, and sorry you and Ant couldn't make it.



Feeling a little better, just chatted w/ my mom (via IM) and she found a dress for the wedding!!

Yeay Mom found a dress!


I'm so sorry we couldn't make it...even sorrier that you suffer from heat crap.


Aw girl, you're just in a funk, you'll get out of it soon enough!

And yes, Mama's is ALWAYS good...damn I miss that Mama's!

i know exactly how you feel! I just moved here and Fh works 7 days aweek and i have no family and friends here at all> I appreciate everything he does for me but sometines i just need company!!!! I went from working full time having my own car/money to living here being a stay at home mom to our daughter we have 1 car which he takes to work and a joint bank account it was sooooo hard to adjust i still have days where i am depressed as hell!!!! ---- , but better days are to come!!!!

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Posted by JeanineHubert

Sasha, I think we need a MAMA's ICES GTG! LOL

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Jeanine that would rock!

Girl, nothing a good cosmo or waltermelontini couldn't fix...you need a night out...!!! The martini glass is half full...

Thank you ALL!!! I am feeling a bit better, I think last night was my low in BLAH-ness.

A few good things...
1-Mom found a dress!!
2-Going to look at limos tonight!
3-Going to to laundry and clean my room!

Okay, so that last one isn't the greatest 'pick-me-up', but it SO needs to be done. As soon as I get my room cleaned up (I stopped half way thru transfering winter/summer clothes ), I can work on wrapping the favors for the wedding!!!

Again, THANK YOU ALL!!! You ladies ROCK!!

-Jill

P.S. Jeanine and Sasha--I am SO down for a Mama's GTG!!! I drive by there on my way home everyday....and FIGHT temptation to stop!!