feeling much better...thanks ladies for all your support.......
angl2001
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so i finally sat down and talked with FH last night. We have decided to take out a loan to pay off the rest of the wedding. We are gonna pay back the majority with out wedding gifts and then figure out the rest. I sat him down and told him what HE NEEDS TO DO!! and i told him I AM NOT DOING IT he is taking some responsibility for this wedding. We are going to see my friend at her bank this week and to file for the loan. She is in charge of it at her bank so she is gonna help us. I feel alot better but until we get than $$ i am still a little weary. Just wanted to give an updat and thank those of you who posted to me the other night and tried to make me feel better. THANK YOU!
davenjess
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oh heather - this must be such a relief for you....
if you need someone to talk to - i'm here!
angl2001
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i know baby thank you! ACKKKKKKKK 7 days till your wedding!!!!! i cant wait to see u walk down the aisle!!
MrsD71208
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Glad you spoke with him. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
angl2001
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Thanks hun!
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Good for you. Now that you've sat down and came up with a plan it will be alot easier. You are thinking of solutions and its been put out in the open what both of you have to do...good luck
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I am happy that you sat down and said how you feel and you have made a plan things should move smoothly now
jonsgirl04
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Awwwhh!! I know how you feel too. I had a breakdown last week. We unfortunatley have to tak a loan out also. My Fh is in college, and hasnt worked much and its all me right now doing the saving, so its been hard. And he feels terrible about it. But i told him school is so much more important to finish. He wasnt going to go back but i told him he has to. LOL. Anyway long story short, keep your head up and everything will work out. I know how hard it is believe me. I still wonder how much to take a loan for???
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glad to hear you are feeling better! it's good that you and FH are on the same page now, things will all start to come together now....you will see.
shoegal68
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i think every bride at some point has a breakdown. glad you talked things out...
xXxNovember08xXx
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im so glad things are workign out...
see you told him.. lol no more of this heather does everythign bs... lol
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YAYYYYY HEATHER!
I always feel better once I talk it all out. It will work itself out - promise.
