Feeling Sad

Ever since FH lost his job, I just dont feel happy about anything. I'm so stressed about life/wedding/money that I feel like a crazy person. FH has not had any luck finding a job so I don't know what to do.

Thanks for listening girls.

Aww hun, I hope things turn around for you and FH real quick. I know it is hard FH has been out of work for a long time also. It is incredibly stressful.

Try and hang in there, and we are always here to lend an ear or a shoulder.

i totally understand what you mean... thats how i felt since september... but you just have to keep moving its not worth it to worry about it when theres nothing you can do... i know its easier said than done... but i am going through what you are right now also

Hang in there. I'm going through something similar. Don't keep it bottled up though, talk about it with someone. If you ever need an ear to listen, feel free.

aw hun, Hang in there.. . . . I am sure he will find something soon

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Posted by soontobecruz

Aww hun, I hope things turn around for you and FH real quick. I know it is hard FH has been out of work for a long time also. It is incredibly stressful.

Try and hang in there, and we are always here to lend an ear or a shoulder.

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thank you

awwwww dont feel sad...things will get better...i know a few people who are having a hard time finding a job but hopefully soon things will turn around

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Posted by AngnShaun

i totally understand what you mean... thats how i felt since september... but you just have to keep moving its not worth it to worry about it when theres nothing you can do... i know its easier said than done... but i am going through what you are right now also

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We really cant afford to pay for the wedding if hes not working. So its hard not to worry.

im sorry. it must be a hard time for you guys. Good luck. I hope he gets a job soon.

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Posted by Sora777

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Posted by AngnShaun

i totally understand what you mean... thats how i felt since september... but you just have to keep moving its not worth it to worry about it when theres nothing you can do... i know its easier said than done... but i am going through what you are right now also

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We really cant afford to pay for the wedding if hes not working. So its hard not to worry.

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Can you cut out some things that are not necessary? Is he getting unemployment? Could you get a second pt time until he finds something? Can family help? I'm sorry!! I hope he finds something soon.

aww everything will work out - hang in there!!

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Posted by Sora777

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Posted by AngnShaun

i totally understand what you mean... thats how i felt since september... but you just have to keep moving its not worth it to worry about it when theres nothing you can do... i know its easier said than done... but i am going through what you are right now also

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We really cant afford to pay for the wedding if hes not working. So its hard not to worry.

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so sorry hun!

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Posted by marinai7

What industry is he in? Maybe I can help.

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FH has always worked in clerical, customer service, administrative positions. He's open to really anything. His last few jobs were 'contract' positions so his resume looks horrible because each job he was at for about a year, but they were never permanant positions. So it looks like he can't stay anywhere long term but thats not the case at all.

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Posted by jackieee

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Posted by Sora777

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Posted by AngnShaun

i totally understand what you mean... thats how i felt since september... but you just have to keep moving its not worth it to worry about it when theres nothing you can do... i know its easier said than done... but i am going through what you are right now also

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We really cant afford to pay for the wedding if hes not working. So its hard not to worry.

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Can you cut out some things that are not necessary? Is he getting unemployment? Could you get a second pt time until he finds something? Can family help? I'm sorry!! I hope he finds something soon.

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all our contracts are basic, we have no add ons. Our families cant afford to help. His mom and my dad are both unemployed. Yes he is getting unemployment but not enough to cover everything. He has epilepsy so his medications runs are $160 a month. We also had to buy a new car in December so we have that payment and a higher insurance premium.
I've been trying to get a part time job without much success.

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Posted by Sora777

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Posted by marinai7

What industry is he in? Maybe I can help.

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FH has always worked in clerical, customer service, administrative positions. He's open to really anything. His last few jobs were 'contract' positions so his resume looks horrible because each job he was at for about a year, but they were never permanant positions. So it looks like he can't stay anywhere long term but thats not the case at all.

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has he tried going through a head hunter or even a temp agency?

Aww, I hope he finds something real soon. I know he'll keep at it.

Hang in there, sweetie. We are all here for you if you need ANYTHING.

I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. Maybe have him try a temp agency. I use to work for Account temps (they are part of Robert Half). They also have another area called Office Team. I would try contacting them to see what is out there. Keep your head up and things will be better soon. We are all here if you need any help!