feeling unloved

oakslady Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:00 PM

feeling unloved

goodness gracious - been wondering what the he double hockey stix i did to folks - just had 5 more cancellations today -
bringing us back down below 100 again
i can believe after over 300 invited i cant even get 100 people to say yes

feeling like a big looser - sorry just had to vent

aimerliny Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:06 PM

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Awww.....we're still coming! Just think, there will be plenty of room on the dance floor for dancing!

julz33 Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:21 PM

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Aww don't feel bad Amy. I wish I could come to help you out but we are closing on the 28th... Try not to get upset. The most important 2 people - You and your FH - will be there

chris605 Posted: Oct 24, 2004 09:41 PM

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The same thing happened to me - Hey if you need more guest - I am sure a few of us LIW girls would love to come....

Seriously - I was sad and mad about it, the day of - I never even tought about it...

halloweenbride04 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:04 AM

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You're NOT a loser!!! I had 3 cancellations on Friday!

oakslady Posted: Oct 25, 2004 12:49 PM

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thanks gals
just been a rough week - i had 11 cancel on friday and now 5 more -
my guest list is just pathetic

oh well - what can we do - no point in worrying about it

luckily i will see a few ever so nice liw gals in person

no stress bride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 01:55 PM

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I'm sure everything will be great!! I can't wait for the pictures Amy!!

TracyInQueens Posted: Oct 25, 2004 03:32 PM

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FH and I invited so many people who didn't come, and we didn't make our minimum either. And you know what? The day of I really didn't care. The people who came were the ones who wanted to be there and they all had a good time. With a couple of exceptions (old friends who lived far away and could not come because of distance/new baby/etc.) I didn't miss anyone who was not there. And I was able to at least chat briefly with all the guests. I've been to weddings that were so huge, we hardly saw the B&G all night.

People will love that your wedding is intimate and cozy and you will have a wonderful time.

rrdm782004 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:21 PM

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What is your min

rrdm782004 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:25 PM

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I just want to say it doesn't matter who is there that day will go by so fast. The most important thing is that you and your new hubby will enjoy yourself.

Robeymuse Posted: Oct 25, 2004 05:50 PM

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don't feel bad Amy. You will be surrounded by so many people that love you that day, you won't even notice. We invited well over 300 too (alot of OOT guests) and we barely made our min.
But I still felt that everybody who was supposed to be there was!

bellepoque Posted: Oct 25, 2004 06:44 PM

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We had people cancelling up to five days before the wedding! Just remember that everyone who is coming wants to be there, loves you and is so excited for both of you!

Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 25, 2004 08:51 PM

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We love you!!!! Don't worry you will still have a fantastic wedding!!!!

nov.bride Posted: Oct 25, 2004 09:25 PM

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DOn't worry your day will be special whether there's 2 or 222. IT's thier loss!

Don't feel bad

sandj100304 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 09:18 AM

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I had 17 cancellations the week of the wedding. I was sad about it but it didn't even faze me that day. Your day will be perfect with or without all those people!