FH and Bachelor party

How are people feeling about FH's bachelor party? I trust him but not his crazy a#$ friends whom I have known for years (I know all of their junk). I know they have already started planning it and are taking him away to some god forsaken place to do god knows what....though I do not plan to be too conservative at mine I still have crazy thoughts sometimes.....

What are others thoughts? They also tease me all the time about it...jerks...I do love them though and they are in the wedding :)

I trust my FH only because he really doesn't like strippers. But I do wish my brother or someone I know well was going to be there to keep an eye on things - but he doesn't have that type of relationship with anyone in my family, etc.

The thing that's really pissing me off is that he wants to go on some wine/brew pub tour in California and pay for the plane ticket, etc. and we can hardly afford our honey moon. Call me selfish, but I don't have the money to jump on a plane for a week with my friends (nor do they) and NOR DOES HE! He will continue to go on weekend guy getaways once a month even after we're married, I don't see why he needs to go while we're trying to save for honey moon, etc.

My FH just left for a night in Atlantic City....I completely trust him, but also worried cause he's with all his guys friends. Not that anything would happen, but for FH's safety. I know it's only one night, but still, I worry.

I trust my FH.

He hates strippers, he thinks they're dirty.. He don't even want one, but he knows he's gonna get them because the guys will get one.

But we want to do ours together but go seperate ways and then meet up towards the end of the night.

FBIL was just telling me he's thinking Vegas for Fh B.P. I don't really care where they go but I am a little jealous as Ilove vegas and want to go too. I am not worried b/c I trust FH but I just wonder what happens when I am not there. I know what happens when I am there and it's sometimes scary w/ FBIL but i do trust FH and Whatever will ahppen will

The bachelor party is one thing that puts a sour taste in my mouth. Not because i don't trust FH, God knows that i have no reason not too (plus my dad and brother will be there lol). But the thought of another girl rubbing him or touching him kind of makes me vomit. Last night when we were out a friend (female) told him, just remember, if you go to touch a girl's boobs, just think, lin will be touching a guy's weenie. It was good for a laugh. To which FH replies, there are no other boobs i want to touch....lin's boobs are perfect for me.

I grew up with FH and all his friends (thanks to having an older brother that is best friends with them all)
So I know all his friends, everything they've done, and what they like to do... LOL
But I trust FH more than anything... I love our Best man... He is the best (that ummm makes sense hahah)
So I told them all, GET HIM STRIPPERS!!!!!
I want him to get smashed, have Ta-Ta's in his face, and just have great memories and lots of laughs!
I know he would never cheat on me and besides that, my brothers will be there haha... So I have NOTHING to worry about, even if my brothers werent there....
I just want him to have a good, fun night...
And I know his friends will make that happen for him!

Strippers are fine with me. We might even nix the idea of seperate parties and have our private night of 'bad behavoir' together which works since there is no wedding party.

Strip clubs dont bother me, I trust him. The only thing I draw the line at is private hotel rooms with strippers, which thanklly he understands why,

It doesn't bother me. I trust FH and know that he would never do anything with anyone other than me.

My brother and FH always tease me about the bachelor party and strippers but I know they are joking and it's all in good fun.

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Posted by LoveRocks

FHs bachelor part is going to consist of boobs and booze and I'm cool with it. They're going to strips clubs and not having girls (ahem.. hookers) come to a hotel room so its ok. I even offered to help my brother plan it!!

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thats awesome how okay you are.. Fh is gpoing to miami for 4 nights with 22 guy friends.. Im fine with it.. I trust him

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Posted by meaganpallotta

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Posted by LoveRocks

FHs bachelor part is going to consist of boobs and booze and I'm cool with it. They're going to strips clubs and not having girls (ahem.. hookers) come to a hotel room so its ok. I even offered to help my brother plan it!!

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thats awesome how okay you are.. Fh is gpoing to miami for 4 nights with 22 guy friends.. Im fine with it.. I trust him

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I've been to strip clubs with and without him and I've even been to live sex shows in Amsterdam, so a strip club in NY is no big deal lol I just want him to have a great time and I love all the guys he's going with and trust all of them not to disrespect me by doing something shady or putting FH in a bad situation.

Sounds like your FH is going to have a great time and its cool that you have enough trust in your relationship to let him! Alot of couples don't have that and it can cause alot of problems.

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Posted by LoveRocks

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Posted by meaganpallotta

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Posted by LoveRocks

FHs bachelor part is going to consist of boobs and booze and I'm cool with it. They're going to strips clubs and not having girls (ahem.. hookers) come to a hotel room so its ok. I even offered to help my brother plan it!!

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thats awesome how okay you are.. Fh is gpoing to miami for 4 nights with 22 guy friends.. Im fine with it.. I trust him

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I've been to strip clubs with and without him and I've even been to live sex shows in Amsterdam, so a strip club in NY is no big deal lol I just want him to have a great time and I love all the guys he's going with and trust all of them not to disrespect me by doing something shady or putting FH in a bad situation.

Sounds like your FH is going to have a great time and its cool that you have enough trust in your relationship to let him! Alot of couples don't have that and it can cause alot of problems.

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I want a joint BP in Amsterdam!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by MPAS

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Posted by LoveRocks

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Posted by meaganpallotta

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Posted by LoveRocks

FHs bachelor part is going to consist of boobs and booze and I'm cool with it. They're going to strips clubs and not having girls (ahem.. hookers) come to a hotel room so its ok. I even offered to help my brother plan it!!

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thats awesome how okay you are.. Fh is gpoing to miami for 4 nights with 22 guy friends.. Im fine with it.. I trust him

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I've been to strip clubs with and without him and I've even been to live sex shows in Amsterdam, so a strip club in NY is no big deal lol I just want him to have a great time and I love all the guys he's going with and trust all of them not to disrespect me by doing something shady or putting FH in a bad situation.

Sounds like your FH is going to have a great time and its cool that you have enough trust in your relationship to let him! Alot of couples don't have that and it can cause alot of problems.

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I want a joint BP in Amsterdam!!!!!!!!!!

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That would be amazing!! Its impossible not to have fun there. FH and I are planning an anniversary trip in 09

yea mine is going to amsterdam.....


im a lil concerned haha

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Posted by AndRecKy

yea mine is going to amsterdam.....


im a lil concerned haha

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I want to go there for my BP , FH doesnt want to go , should be the opposite right?, hahaha