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FH and I almost called it off yesterday
Original post by R&J0806
After yet another issue with FILs, FH and I almost called it off yesterday. FFIL said something really horrible to me yesterday and although it was said out of anger, I'm having a really hard time gettng over it and FH knows it. It angered my father so much that he stopped what he was doing just to make sure I was alright.
FH and I made a promise to each other that we'd never let our parents come between us after yesterday, and he promised we'd take a step back from his parents.
Problem is, he's come to THEIR defense OVER MINE more times than I'd like and that makes me nervous. I just kept saying to him 'look me in the face and tell me that your parents have not treated me poorly all year and I'll shut up. Look at me and tell me they haven't been disrespectful and haven't carrried on. Just tell me that they haven't.' And he couldn't do that. So he obviously knows they aren't always right.
8 days to go and I'm really nervous now. My father is scared. I don't know what to do.![]()
FH and I made a promise to each other that we'd never let our parents come between us after yesterday, and he promised we'd take a step back from his parents.
Problem is, he's come to THEIR defense OVER MINE more times than I'd like and that makes me nervous. I just kept saying to him 'look me in the face and tell me that your parents have not treated me poorly all year and I'll shut up. Look at me and tell me they haven't been disrespectful and haven't carrried on. Just tell me that they haven't.' And he couldn't do that. So he obviously knows they aren't always right.
8 days to go and I'm really nervous now. My father is scared. I don't know what to do.
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