Been there. What about trying 'spice' things up a bit? Sexy lingerie? Videos? A hotel night somewhere?
Jna2010
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there are always ups and downs.... and i think birth control has a lot to do with it ... itll get better
JAAMS
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I like the idea of a hotel night somewhere...something totally different.
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Posted by Lsorrent
Been there. What about trying 'spice' things up a bit? Sexy lingerie? Videos? A hotel night somewhere?
LMAOOOO he actually bought me a 'borat' suit for xmas..... think borat though...the thing is horrible!
brittndave
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my bc makes me like that!
Becca2010
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Just went through this, but you come out of it gradually. Don't worry, it will pass!! Wedding stress doesn't help either.
latinaj
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he gave me the 'u used to be fun speech' (totally hurt my feelings)
Soon2bShea
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I'm going through the same thing right now ...it will pass!! I agree with the above suggestions! (hotel is def a good one)
regy_k
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telling each other elaborate fantasies helps and now I think I said too much
MikesBride2B
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when that happens to me I find that watching porn (with FH or by myself before FH comes home) helps a lot.
kerber981
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Posted by Jna2010
there are always ups and downs.... and i think birth control has a lot to do with it ... itll get better
ita
AngnShaun
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its totally normal...
MayBride2010
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I am glad to hear I am not the only one...! With wedding stress, family drama, and in the process of buying a house, my stress level is through the roof - so I totally havent been in the mood. Thank god FH has been understanding...
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I hear you, but even with all of our own stresses, we can't forget about our FHs. They're the reason we're even on LIW and they need attention too! If he's like mine, he needs lots of it! You need a date night, complete with some really drunk SEX!! He'll friggin worship the ground you walk on after that!! Get yourself in the mood girl!!
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RGEC47
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Don't worry it will pass. We have been there multiple times. Try talking to him, it will help if he can understand what you're going through.
Becca2010
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he gave me the 'u used to be fun speech' (totally hurt my feelings)
Ugh! I HATE when they do that!!! They say that and then, 'You've changed.'
joctorre
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i agree with the drinking suggestion. That always helps me get in the mood... (or not throw him off if he is...)
We always have this issue!!!!
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Don't worry it will pass. We have been there multiple times. Try talking to him, it will help if he can understand what you're going through.
ITA. We've all been there. It actually makes me feel a little better to know I'm not alone.
GonnaBeeMrsG
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when that happens to me I find that watching porn (with FH or by myself before FH comes home) helps a lot.
