but we are ok now. I'm just a little upset with myself for behaving like a five year old. It's football and hunting season and after 11 years, you would think I would be used to it. Plus, I've been outta work since June and at first it was nice cuz I could focus on wedding plans, but now the holidays are approaching and I still havent found anything, and I'm starting to get really bummed. FH has been getting frusturated with me cuz he says that even tho i'm not working, he is and I can't expect him to entertain me all day long. And I'm starting to realize that he is right. We have taken a break from wedding plans for now, since we got a lot of the major stuff done, and now I'm becoming bored during the day and I guess he is right............I'm nagging him to fill the void. Please cross your fingers for me that I will find a job soon.
AllyDrew1108
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Awwww. Thank gawd FH doesn't follow football, but baseball season seems to last an eternity
As for a job - have you tried recruiters, Craigslist, or maybe just temp til you find something?
I was out of work for a little while and drove FH crazy. Calling him 100 times a day. Cleaning like a mad woman, food shopping and making meals he didn't even want. Spend your free time applying for jobs, it will make you feel better. That worked for me :(
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i think the stress of the wedding and holidays is gettting to most of us. i have been taking so much agression out on Fh lately .
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i hope you find something soon! I hate that feeling......so sorry!
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Awwww. Thank gawd FH doesn't follow football, but baseball season seems to last an eternity
As for a job - have you tried recruiters, Craigslist, or maybe just temp til you find something?
I was out of work for a little while and drove FH crazy. Calling him 100 times a day. Cleaning like a mad woman, food shopping and making meals he didn't even want. Spend your free time applying for jobs, it will make you feel better. That worked for me :(
Oh thank god I'm normal. I think we have the cleanest apartment in all of LI and I spend so much spare time experimenting in the kitchen (I'm not exactly Rachel Ray) and the best part is that FH is in the restaurant business so he is almost never home for dinner so I end up eating alone and heating his up for him later on. I have been sending out resumes, but I'm in the middle of a career change and while I do have the education to back me up, unfortunately I lack the professional experience necessary. Thanks for letting me know that I'm not the only one who has had crazy dialing moments
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What kind of job r u looking for? Maybe u could temp through the holidays when hiring is slow?
Trust me, I understand the pain of football and hunting season. FH has been away since last Thursday because he is upstate hunting. He came home briefly on Sunday morning because he had football playoffs and had to set his fantasy football lineup.
Things will get better---we all go through stress like this, and it seems to get worse around the holidays, especially when u r also planning a wedding.
KK Holiday
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awwww
dont worry you'll find a job! Whenever your bored just come on LIW...
maybe you can volunteer or something just to fill your days?
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I been there- I totally understand when I was out of work I would nag fh and find things to pick at because I was unhappy and had time to dwell & analyze things I also felt he should be there to 'entertain me' eventually I got past it you will get though it try to get into routine of something instead of the wedding planning which i know you said you took a break on- if you start focusing on other things and yourself you'll feel much better
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My FH is a hunter and fisherman.... so I know the feeling....
If you need anything or just want to vent, feel free to FM me....
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dont worry, things will turn around and should be back to normal soon. its just one of those things that you have to wait out...you will find work eventually so dont worry - you guys will be okay!
