He came home from work and the mood and aura was just soooo much better. He said 'get dressed, we're going out to dinner.'. Meanwhile I had just gotten home from the supermarket b/c I was going to cook one of his favorite dinners lol. So we go to The Cheesecake Factory and basically just talk EVERYTHING out. We were finally communicating again and both of us getting our points across. It was so great to just be heard and to hear him without the tension.
We had a great dinner together and are finally back to our normal selves. I told him I'm not doing any more planning until after the New Year. I think a small break from planning is just what I need, especially since right now, it's mostly just the details.
Oh and I'm surprising him Saturday night. Friday is exactly 10 years since the day we met. So I booked a room for us at the Huntington Hilton for Saturday night so we could just get away for a day. We haven't had a vacation in over 2 years, so I think this little night excursion could be just what we need.
Just wanted to update you girls and thank you all once again. I FINALLY got a good nights sleep last night and have an appetite again. You girls really are great. I'd put up huggy and thank you emoticons, but I'm on my blackberry :)
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That's great that you 2 cleared the air! Must feel like a giant load off your shoulders!
Your getaway will be so nice! Tomorrow, FH and I are celebrating our 10 year anniversary of when we first met, but we're not doing anything special like a night away... ENJOY!!!!
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I'm so glad that things worked out! Yay!
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so happy to hear everything is good
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yayyyyyyy!!!!!
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awww! so glad you guys talked it out
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So happy to hear that everything worked out ok - love the overnight vacay!!!
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soooo happy to hear all of that laura!!!!!!!!! yay!!!!!
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Thanks girls! And no worries Roz, I'm not going anywhere. I told FH 'I'm not going to buy anything or plan anything, but that doesn't mean I'm not still going to be on LIW all the time' :)
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Im so thrilled to hear that Laura, I was worried about you guys!
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Yeah Laura!!!
I am sooo happy for you!!! Be sure to have fun on Saturday....oh and lots of loving too!!
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That is the best news I've heard all week. I am so happy you were able to talk it out.
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Laura I'm so happy everything worked out! Have fun on saturday ;o)
jlt2010
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i'm so glad to hear that you guys worked it out!!
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so glad things went well! as i always say (not really), being surrounded by cheesecake helps everything.
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That's great. I'm so glad you talked it out and everything is back to normal.
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So glad everything worked out for you.
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glad to hear it :)
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Glad everything worked out!
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Awww...good for you!! I am happy for you that you guys were able to staighten things out...I havent commented on your other posts...but I have been following and am wishing the best for you.