FH and I talked things out last night...

And we're finally on the same page again :).

He came home from work and the mood and aura was just soooo much better. He said 'get dressed, we're going out to dinner.'. Meanwhile I had just gotten home from the supermarket b/c I was going to cook one of his favorite dinners lol.
So we go to The Cheesecake Factory and basically just talk EVERYTHING out. We were finally communicating again and both of us getting our points across.
It was so great to just be heard and to hear him without the tension.

We had a great dinner together and are finally back to our normal selves. I told him I'm not doing any more planning until after the New Year.
I think a small break from planning is just what I need, especially since right now, it's mostly just the details.

Oh and I'm surprising him Saturday night. Friday is exactly 10 years since the day we met. So I booked a room for us at the Huntington Hilton for Saturday night so we could just get away for a day. We haven't had a vacation in over 2 years, so I think this little night excursion could be just what we need.


Just wanted to update you girls and thank you all once again. I FINALLY got a good nights sleep last night and have an appetite again. You girls really are great. I'd put up huggy and thank you emoticons, but I'm on my blackberry :)