FH BROKE UP WITH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm sorry! Don't keep beating yourself up, though. I'm sure if you give it a little time to cool down you will be able to talk to him and get your true feelings accross

sorry this happenend, i hope it all works out for you

we're here for u

I'm so sorry you have to go thru this...this happened to me last weekend and i was a wreck! I know its hard, but give it a few hours or a few days. And don't consider it over yet. But most importantly, don't forget: love is not a lightswitch. it cannot be turned off so quickly. i guarentee you, he has not stopped loving you.

We're here for you. FM me if you want to talk.

awwww... I feel so bad for you. It might get better ....just let him cool off.

I am so sorry, try to be strong and keep your head up the best you can at this difficult time!!

OMG, I am so sorry to hear that. Give him some space to cool off. Then call him and I am sure things will work out.

Thank You all so much...I havent been able to sleep..I read all your posts and I cant tell you what that kind of caring attitude and positivity does to a person who is so alone right now and depressed beyond belief....i have never been this down or hopeless....

I think your responses really helped me...

I also think that the brides that Fmed me about talking to them and sendin me love..you guys are the sweetest girls..ur Fh's are very lucky to have you..


To the lipglossjunky girl...you are very rude and full of drama, you add idiotic posts on here when you are bored and now when someone needs help you add sarcastic comments and unneeded grief, I hope you are a nicer person in life then you appear to be on here.....

Hey Sweetie!
I am so sorry you guys are going through this crap. I hope things work themselves out as life has a way of doing. FH and I have been together almost 16 years on/off. We are high school sweethearts and we have broken up and been 'on a break' so we can decide are we really meant for each other. I hope you both see things through and work them out. Fh and I are proof that if it is meant to be, it is meant to be,
Good Luck I will keep you in my prayers. I am sure it is not an easy thing.
We are here if you need anything!! FManytime!!!
Good luck!

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Thank You all so much...I havent been able to sleep..I read all your posts and I cant tell you what that kind of caring attitude and positivity does to a person who is so alone right now and depressed beyond belief....i have never been this down or hopeless....

I think your responses really helped me...

I also think that the brides that Fmed me about talking to them and sendin me love..you guys are the sweetest girls..ur Fh's are very lucky to have you..


To the lipglossjunky girl...you are very rude and full of drama, you add idiotic posts on here when you are bored and now when someone needs help you add sarcastic comments and unneeded grief, I hope you are a nicer person in life then you appear to be on here.....

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Oh my goodness - I am so sorry if I offended you in any way!!! Who else have I offended? Who else did I provide drama and grief for - ladies, let me know - I pride myself in being anti-drama, but you never know how things can get misunderstood thru an interne tposting!!!

I am so sorry if I came out as sarcastic and rude - trust me, I know things can get misconstrued here, and I was asking those questions because I noticed my post was deleted too, so I wanted to make sure I somehow wasn't mixed up in that....

Yes - you got me - I do post idiotic things on here when I'm bored, and it's because some of the girls and I have some inside jokes, and when we are all stressed, I find it lightens things up - thats my personality.... I definitely never said anything blatantly hurtful on these boards, but sometimes things can happen by accident. If I am one of those people - I apologize to you and everyone - I don't know why I'm the one that got the most heat though!!!

I am sorry you are going thru this - I know that you need to vent and get angry at someone, and I'm the visible one here, and I'm ok with that...

as for being a nicer person - well, I'm human. I work hard in a field that is pretty much child-centered for the most part, so, I try the best I can. As we all do - if we get sill now and then, its all in fun - as for hurting people's feelings - I always try not to do that - but, if you need to get mad, get mad at the people who called you a liar to your face!!! And said horrible things! All I asked was this the girl with the dress issue, because I wondered what ever happened and what you decided to do, and never heard anything again... and if you remember - I was TOTALLY supportive of you on that post!!!

and I thought it strange because it seemed to tie into now this, and I know how little things can lead to bigger issues...
I was going to put on a supportive post, and I still will!!! Hang in there - FH and I have been on the verge now and then, and when things cool off, everyone will gain better perspective of the issues...

Lipglossjunky girl..iIdo opologize for my outburst, this is a very tough time and you just didnt seem very supportive, I would have snapped at the other girls had there posts and named had not been deleted so quickly.

I think I am going to stay at my mothers house for a while until I canget thru this.

Thank you all for your kindness...

That's awful.

Don't feel as if it's all your fault...it takes 2 people to have a conflict....I mean, obviously he decided that he couldn't handle it anymore and walked away, but that doesn't really make it all your fault. If it can be worked through, then do what you can to remedy the problem. You said it was family problems...without details, can that be resolved or eliminated? Hopefully this works out for you and know that he is just as hurt as you are!

I am further sorry that people were mean to you. You shouldn't get attacked on a wedidng chat board...especially over this!

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Lipglossjunky girl..iIdo opologize for my outburst, this is a very tough time and you just didnt seem very supportive, I would have snapped at the other girls had there posts and named had not been deleted so quickly.

I think I am going to stay at my mothers house for a while until I canget thru this.

Thank you all for your kindness...

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I completely understand - and this isn't about me at all - its about you - so I don't want to take anytime from people being supportive of you... Like I said, I am capable of saying inappropriate things at times, and it takes a slap in the face to make me aware of what I did, so I apologize once again.... I hope whatever happens, it works out for the best...

I think you really need to be around your friends and family - those who know you, as this would be most helpful for you at this time! Good luck!

hey hang in there!! I would really try to work things out. it seems you guys have been together a long time.

we've broken up a few times too. sometimes it happens, but if you still love him I would try to talk things out

Give him some time... It will all work out!

I know it is incredibly hard but stay there and fight for yourself. If you go away, it will make things worse. FH does that and it drives me mad!!! Stay and fight, because you are worth it and more!!!!!!!!!!!!

newhere I hope you get through this difficult time. My thoughts are with you.

Lipgloss - don't be so hard on yourself. Many woman on this board can vouch for your character and caring reputation. As for your unique sense of humor you better not lose it or refrain from posting your hilarious pictures and quirky comments! your the best!