I've had a constant headache since Thursday, the day he changed his mind. FH's family has finally driven him to madness and he doesn't want to do the wedding, at least not now. He wants to have a private (away) ceremony this spring, with a few of our closest relatives and be done with it. He said if I still want the big ceremony, he wants to wait another year or two, to give his family a chance to get over some of their issues. After two major deaths recently, they are in complete turmoil and it's been spilling into our relationship, so he thinks this is best. I guess he's right but I can't help being soooo disappointed. Swan Club and the other vendors are ok with changing the date, but I'm still trying to be.
Sooo...without the ceremony, am I still considered a 2010 bride??
MrsHazel2B
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I knew you girls would make me feel better. I woke up feeling 'ok' about it but after talking to FH and reading your posts, I feel much better about it all. The drama would have overshadowed my day and I would have had major regrets. I'm positive about this decision.
Soooo, I'm picking a new date because he wants to either fly to Vegas or go to one of the USVIs. I don't know what I want to do just yet but it will be just us, his BM (brother) & wife, my MOH (sister) and her FH. That's it! Knowing me, we'll probably do one of the islands in March Swan Club told me to give them a tentative date so that they can hold the payments and create a new contract, I can always change the date later w/o penalty. So that's taken care of. Same with the other vendors, eveyone was really cool about changing the date.
And I'm so happy you girls are here. There's really no where else I can go to get complete understanding and support w/o added drama! Thank you so much!
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Noelsgirl
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I hope it all works out!! You are still a 2010 bride.
queensbride2010
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When FH and I went on a cruise last year, there were a couple of people getting married in St. Thomas.
You should definitely do what is best for you and your FH. The only thing that matters is that you are marrying the man you love. Maybe you can move the wedding to later in the year and take advantage of the price drop during the off-season
Good luck with everything!
JenBill61210
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don't worry, everything will work out and its all for the best, you are always welcome on here
futureMrsJSL
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Sorry this happened. It's hard when things change all of a sudden but I do believe that everything happens for a reason and to just go with the flow of things and it will all work out
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Posted by soonT0beMrsD
u are still a 2010 bride
dont worry you will get the wedding of your dreams someday
i agree!!
kris_gets_hitched
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I'm so sorry to hear this. But yes - you're still a 2010 bride!!!
