Anyone else have this problem? I mean I know he doesn't wear jewelry and he doesn't like it, but its your freaking wedding band?? Does anyone else feel the same way I feel. Shouldn't he be happy to wear it regardless?
It's not that big of a deal to me, I am just going to get him the cheapest ring I can get him b/c I don't want to spend money on something that will never see the light of day again. It just sort of makes me a little sad in the heart that my own husband won't have a wedding band on.
He is into tattoos so he liked the idea of getting it tattooed on him instead of something he can take on and off lol I don't get him.
SoonToBeMrsScott
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my fh doesn't like jewelry and he doesn't like anything flashy but thats 1 piece he will wear
jaydan915
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My DH only wears his ring on weekends...when he remembers to put it on. We got him a titanium band and when he does wear it, he can't even tell that it is on. Maybe get him to try some on and see if he likes it better. They have some really cool titanium ones even black titanium is really cool. I tell my DH that it looks sexy on him to get him to wear it more.. Good luck.
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my FH doesn't wear ANY jewelry either and hates it.. but he will wear a wedding band. But he already said that it's going to be annoying to get used to. It's important to him to wear it though.
He'll get used to it, tell him to suck it up!
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my FH and i had this discussion too. he does not want to wear a ring, but i think he needs something. so we talked about tattoos too, i persnally loved the idea of the tattoo, but i heard bad things about ring tattoos like there wear off in the inside of the finer. so we are not sure what we are going to do either
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my fh husband said he is getting my nickname which is meme written on his ring finger... he is crazy... instead of a ring
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my FH and i had this discussion too. he does not want to wear a ring, but i think he needs something. so we talked about tattoos too, i persnally loved the idea of the tattoo, but i heard bad things about ring tattoos like there wear off in the inside of the finer. so we are not sure what we are going to do either
I told him that the tattoo is obviously more permanent than a piece of jewelry that he can take on and off.
Then the other night he was at a bar with his friends and he said how some girls were hitting on him. I told him to wait until he wears his wedding ring lol Maybe that will pursuade him to do it!?
LeeLee111
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MY FH is wears jewelry every day so hes excited to wear it.
mjay
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I have heard of this,,my best friend her husband doesnt wear his ring unless they are going out somewhere,,
Reymiliz
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I would tell him ok so im not wearing my ring either ...(Although i love my ring and i love wearing it ...) cuz he hates it when i dont so that would be one way to persuade him !!
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just tell him to try it for awhile and after like amonth if he still doesnt want to wear it, tell him he doesnt have to. Or tell him he doesnt have to wear it all teh time, but you would like it if he did when u go to dinner or out for a special occasion- see what he says to that...
Bride908
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fh doesnt wear jewlery ever, period...he hates it. He told me he doesnt plan on wearing it, but he did also say that he would get a tattoo on his ring finger so I am fine with that.
hb123
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My FH is wearing his and never argued about it, but honestly, if he refused to wear his, I wouldn't wear mine! Personally, I hate when men refuse to wear their wedding bands, I think it's disrespectful.
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Mine can't wear it at work because its manual labor and he doesnt want it to get lost or anything.
And other times, I don't think he's gonna wear it anyway.
I told him he just has to wear it when we go somewhere nice
carolinebr
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I hate when men refuse to wear their wedding bands, I think it's disrespectful.
I agree
SFAR89
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Posted by Reymiliz
I would tell him ok so im not wearing my ring either ...(Although i love my ring and i love wearing it ...) cuz he hates it when i dont so that would be one way to persuade him !!
I wish that would work lol he is so stubborn. It's not that huge of a deal like I am going to cry over it or anything, I guess it just goes along with the whole 'marriage' thing. You both wear rings and that's that.
I think I will buy him one and this way like some of you said, he can at least wear it to special events and things like that. =) I will see if that works lol
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I posted about this when I first joined the site a year ago.
FH says the same thing 'it's uncomfortable'. He was married before and didn't wear it because it hurt his finger.
So we got him a comfort fit band and I told him if I have to change my NAME and wear a ring, he has to wear his. For each day he doesn't wear his ring, I'm not wearing mine (when I leave the house, but then I'll put it on, I love my ring!)
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Posted by Bride908
fh doesnt wear jewlery ever, period...he hates it. He told me he doesnt plan on wearing it, but he did also say that he would get a tattoo on his ring finger so I am fine with that.
Ha ha ha! I'm gonna tell FH about that! Can't complain of discomfort that way!
lillprincess54
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when me and dh got engaged, he was like i am not sure if i will wear my weddng band
well we have been married a little over 2 months and he wears it everyday, he told me his thoughts of wearing it are much different and that he enjoys wearing it,
hopefully your fh will change his mind
Firkx3
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FH says he can't wear it to work, however I think he can. But says he'll always have it on unless he's at work. Trying to make it always, even while at work
