Fh ended thingsUPDATE*

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:00 PM

Fh ended thingsUPDATE*

I can't really get into details now but, it is over between us. Of cousre I am getting this attitude as well because his parents started with him but, it is over. He wants nothing to do with the wedding, stuff, he doesn't want to marry me. So he is taking things out on me but, I have had it!!! I will still help you ladies with all but, when I give my crown up next Sunday I will no longer be an 09ner.
***UPDATE****
We are back together and he needs to work on things BIG time!!!!! I suggested counseling but, we will see how that goes. It is very stressful on us. I have to worry about money with my son and he has the pressure from his parents, they are not helping what so ever to make things easy!!!! But, he isnt easy going either,lol. He is feeling pressure with all this wedding stuff and I am always a worrier so I put alittle more pressure on things and that doesn't help but, I'm a mom,lol. I want to say thank you again and I am really glad a made alittle family called the 09ners!!!!
P.S. I love the gals from the 09ners that I am not changing the wedding to 2010!!!! Details in a new post!!!

P.s. sorry if I repeat myself fromt he other post

HM807 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:04 PM

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OMG.... im so sorry. I hope you can work things out once things calm down!

mdawg Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:05 PM

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omg :( what happened? do you have AIM? its psiabhoryou... IM ME! let's talk. are you okay? omg...

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:05 PM

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Posted by b2b777

OMG.... im so sorry. I hope you can work things out once things calm down!

That's not going to happen he is being extremely hurtful and mean to me right now and I have had enough.

sofreakingexcited Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:05 PM

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OMG I'm so sorry! I'm sure things will work out once you both have time to cool off and you can sit down and talk about things

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:05 PM

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Posted by mdawg

omg :( what happened? do you have AIM? its psiabhoryou... IM ME! let's talk. are you okay? omg...

Dazies1974

Summertimegal424 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:06 PM

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holy crap what happen!

KRISTYRUSSELL Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:07 PM

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So so sorry sweetie, wishing you all the best....

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:08 PM

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Oh my goodness christine! I am SO sorry...are you ok? please keep us posted!

lookitscassie Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:12 PM

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i'm so sorry :( I hope youre doing ok

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:12 PM

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His parents came home started with him, his friend says I was nasty when I wasn't but, then again would you go out of your way for someone who is always saying things about you? Fh can be really nice or really mean and he needs to see someone about it, I have tried to help but, when he is sooo nasty htere is only soo much I can take and I turn and become mean. He is just so quick to hurt feelings and this is with anyone!!! I can't think too much right now, I hope some of that made sense.

lookitscassie Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:14 PM

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it made sense. you dont need that. thats so stinky to have to go through :(

Summertimegal424 Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:15 PM

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what if you sat down w/ FH and asked for some hlep in planning the wedding, ask him what responsiblities he wants and if he ins't being helpful enough maybe tell him i would really like if you tried to do this...and such

honey its not over till its over....

its just a stupid fight! you've both put too much into already and i dont even know you but from what you say you have and deserve the best

billandme Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:24 PM

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I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. I don't know what the circumstances are, but I hope that you guys can work this out either way.......

Just know that all of the girls are here to help you in every way