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FH FINALLY SPEAKS ABOUT THE WEDDING

Reymiliz Posted:

FH FINALLY SPEAKS ABOUT THE WEDDING

AND SAYS HE WANTS TO HAVE A DESTINATION WEDDINGGGGGGGGGGG !!!!!!!.....

i still dont know how to react


ANY THOUGHTS LADIES
T E R I Posted:

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WOW

Where does he want to have it?
Reymiliz Posted:

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he said he wants it on an island ... and yess wow is the right wordd he hasnt spoken about the wedding since we got engaged just little things like i like it i dont ... thats ugly ... thats stupid .... thats nice .... and then i was looking at favors online and I say babe do u like this he was like .....i dont wannaregular wedding i wanna go away for two weeks spend the time with the people that truly need to be there on an island !!!!
HallsLady Posted:

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WHAT!!!

Okay let me calm down, the upside is that you didn't anything for sure yet and hopefully no deposits were made. But will all of your families be able to attend a destination wedding? I know that an important concern for you would be the meshing of the two families/religions. Either way were here for you!
T E R I Posted:

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destination weddings are nice, i know people that have had them and loved it. All that matters is if that is what you want and if the people that you really want to be there will be able to travel to get there.
Reymiliz Posted:

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lol ... we arent doing anything religous he doesnt want to ... and im more spiritual than anything ... I think alhough it isnt certain i am going to poll my family ... lol with like random questions about des weddings .... i mean i know his family will go like his mom and brothers because they have to travel from israel all the way over here anyway so im sure they would rather go to an island then come here

HallsLady Posted:

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Definitely poll your fam and see what they say. My good friend is planning a destination wedding for next year. Plus while on vacation, I saw about 6 brides, no lie and they all looked really lovely.

T E R I Posted:

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is a destination wedding something you want?

i would definitely poll the family
Christine N Ralph Posted:

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WOW that is great!!!! I love the ideas of destination weddings- but I know that I would not be able to have one for a few reasons: our grandmothers who we love dearly dont fly and woulnt come- and I always wanted to get married in a church....BBBUUUTTT in your case I would definatly go for it! You would have amazing pics, and it would be somthing nice to say you have done...Plus your honeymoon starts early...lol

Reymiliz Posted:

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ummm i wouldnt mind it ... it would save me ALOT OF MONEY .... and I love travelingand so does he so it would be something nice ... I guess now its up to the fmily .. I know my friends will be pissed tough ... ayayayayay i dont knoww
Christine N Ralph Posted:

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I would love it if one of my friends had a destination wedding...I would be the 1st one to rsvp Yes!

T E R I Posted:

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Posted by Reymiliz

ummm i wouldnt mind it ... it would save me ALOT OF MONEY .... and I love travelingand so does he so it would be something nice ... I guess now its up to the fmily .. I know my friends will be pissed tough ... ayayayayay i dont knoww



well for the people that couldn't make it to the destination wedding, you could always have a small reception here when you get back for those people to attend. then you could have 2 parties
HallsLady Posted:

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Posted by Reymiliz

ummm i wouldnt mind it ... it would save me ALOT OF MONEY .... and I love travelingand so does he so it would be something nice ... I guess now its up to the fmily .. I know my friends will be pissed tough ... ayayayayay i dont knoww



well for the people that couldn't make it to the destination wedding, you could always have a small reception here when you get back for those people to attend. then you could have 2 parties



So true. You could have your 2 dresses after all. Would you be paying the way and accommodations for your guests or just for the two of you or close relatives?
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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A friend of mine did a destination wedding in Aruba. It was just close friends and family. But in two months she is having a big party at her familys house for everyone. It saved a ton of money and it was soooo beautiful. Plus now that the big party is at her parents house, it saved a lot of money there too and everyone still gets to go.

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I think as long as you're having a small wedding it would be ALOT of fun. I've never been to a destination wedding and probably never will. It would be a great and unique experience for everyone!!

Soon2Bmarried007 Posted:

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I wish we could afford a destination wedding!!!!! February is sooooooooo cold. At least I'll have a destination honeymoon
JC297 Posted:

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We wanted a destination wedding at first. But then we realized it was going to cost us just as much if not more to have one as having a regular wedding and a lot of people wouldnt come. We both have quite a few family members that couldnt afford to travel and who dont fly.

JenBill61210 Posted:

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That sounds so nice. In the end its up to what you want to do... if you want a destination wedding then go for it! I know if i was invited to a friend's destination wedding, i would def book my plane ticket asap!

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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wow that sounds so nice!! and be grateful that he opened his mouth finally!!!

The idea is great, keep it small and intimate with just the people you really want there and then maybe when you get back home have a small reception a few months later to celebrate with everyone.
This seems so exciting!!
Reymiliz Posted:

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WOW thanks ladies for the input .... so its not set in stone but i am going to start looking around ... he doesnt say much but when he does he means what he says so im thinking he is serious about this .... I asked my two best friends they were like WHERE AND WHEN so they are down but my sis who has two kids was like umm ... do i have to pay for everything lol ... i will help her pay .... as for everyone else they are on thier own ... i will pay for events like fun things to do while we are there , like maybe i willl plan a whole day of stuff ... and i will pay for the ' reception after the wedding ' which will probably be like a dinner ... My reseach begins

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